My friend lost his grandad a couple of years ago. The grandads will left instructions for half of his estate to go to his only child, my friends mum with the other half to be shared equally between my friend and his sister. Both of them are in their 20,s/30’s.
They have spent the last couple of years doing up grandads house and now it’s finished my friends mum wants to leave her partner and move into grandads old house.
The mum does not have any money to buy her son and daughter out and seems to think it’s ok not to give them what they are owed. The sister isn’t too concerned yet as she still lives at home but my friend (who lives with his girlfriend) wants to move on, buy a house, marriage, kids etc.
My friend is extremely stressed and cannot make his mum understand his situation. She does not listen well !
He obviously doesn’t not want to fall out with her or get legal, The mum is in her 60’s so no likelihood of raising a mortgage to buy him out.