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Possible scam, advice please

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Cillafan Thu 30-Jul-26 13:28:08

Hello, a few weeks ago I received a phone call from New York asking for my late sister who died several months ago, it was about shares for a media company, I knew nothing about these shares, and can find no proof, I was told by ,'carol' these shares are now mine and am being offered over £10 a share for the 3000 she allegedly held, after being sent transfer forms, etc; I was worn down by lengthy phone calls from her, and I have to pay a 'vendors deposit 'of £4000 to a company in the Philippines called Gam business support services (I can't find this company) before the shares are sold and I receive circa forty thousand pounds and the deposit back, the woman didn't have an American accent, more south east asian, my Bank refused to release the money saying there have been many scams originating from the Philippines, carol said I should insist they release the deposit money, I really don't know if I am being scammed or is it genuine, I'm a 65 year old man in a single household, I have no one else to ask it's causing me much anxiety and adding to my grief, has this sort of thing happened to anyone else?.....cheers

4allweknow Fri 31-Jul-26 14:57:07

Read first couple of senences - its a scam. If your sister had intended you to be beneficiary they'd know more than your email address.

HMWALES Fri 31-Jul-26 14:55:15

It's 100% a scam. Do not send any money. Next time they ring put the phone down immediately. Do not engage in any conversation. Sorry about the loss of your sister. Best wishes.

She777 Fri 31-Jul-26 14:47:45

This is most definitely a scam. If you have your sisters bank statements you would be able to look through them and see any deposit from dividends of shares. No one will ask for money upfront.

Good luck. x

sheepish79 Fri 31-Jul-26 14:43:49

If there were any shares the company would be getting in touch by letter not phone call and they definitely would not be asking for any money to sell the shares, commission is taken after the shares are sold and then the balance sent to you. Have you checked your sister's bank or building society statements for any dividend payments, normally October and May time. If none show up then it is a scam and your bank did the right thing. You should report this. I am sorry that you are going through this I am at present dealing with my ( late) husbands affairs and it can be very time consuming plus distressing.

ordinarygirl Fri 31-Jul-26 14:39:40

I would heed the advice of the bank - if you send money then it is likely you will lose it and even more if the scammers have your bank details. don't feel embarrassed as scammers are very good at their job

NanRuby Fri 31-Jul-26 14:36:54

Seriously don't have anything to do with them and on no account send them any money...... It's a scam. If anyone asks you for money for them to send you money it's a SCAM! Keep clear.

KathleenE Fri 31-Jul-26 14:36:01

I agree with all the responses that this is a scam. If someone were to send money in such a case, against the advice of the bank, the bank would not refund it.
These scammers are shameful and target vulnerable people. So glad you haven't sent any money.

Ziplok Fri 31-Jul-26 14:35:08

Cillafan

Thank you for the replies so far everyone, they're much appreciated, I had my doubts from the start, but like the naive fool I am, I was swept along with it, how this carol got my late sister's details I will never know, no deposit money has been sent (thanks to my bank), and never will now, I will send her an email (then block her) saying I'm dropping out of the transaction, not that she deserves a response, attempting to scam a person in mourning (which is now worse, just when things were getting better) is absolutely atrocious

No, do not send an email to her, just block her. They would then have your email as well as phone number.

As other posters have said, did you give out any bank details? If you did, inform your bank so that they can check for suspicious behaviour, although of course, they are already aware of the attempt to scam you by refusing to send the money, but it’s better to be doubly safe.

These scammers are wicked, with no moral compass.

Babamaman Fri 31-Jul-26 14:33:26

Contact your Sollicitors! Check with your bank? Check with the BBC scam hunters?
Definitely do not hand over any money!
Do not feel pressured!
If she calls you again try to stay calm and get all her details:
Name
Phone number
Company she works for
Where is she based
Tell her you do not have any access to that kind of money!
Sounds like a very dark and well organised scam to me
Good luck

LoisH Fri 31-Jul-26 14:32:34

DO NOT SEND ANY MONEY!!
Report to Action Fraud/ Police
03001232040

Rijedaim Fri 31-Jul-26 14:25:02

I'm with everyone else on here and so pleased you heeded their advice. Action Fraud is the police Fraud service who are always looking out for scammers. They are based with the City of London police so if you (or anyone else) has anything to report would be good to provide scammers details to www.reportfraud.police.uk

Peaseblossom Fri 31-Jul-26 14:22:31

ExaltedWombat For the love of god don't vote Liebour or freaky Green or loony LibDem.

Peaseblossom Fri 31-Jul-26 14:20:42

Hear hear.

polly123 Fri 31-Jul-26 14:12:32

This is almost certainly a scam.

Grandmotherto8 Fri 31-Jul-26 14:09:15

DO NOT RESPOND AGAIN TO THEM. Just block & report, if you can. Any interaction with them simply encourages them to keep contacting you. I NEVER respond to any unsolicited phone calls, text message or email. They are invariably scams. After unknown phone calls once the ringing stops I block & report, ALWAYS. If someone genuinely needs to contact you they can write to you.

POW1 Fri 31-Jul-26 14:09:10

Firstly, I am very sorry for your loss. The red flag is that ‘Carol’ wore you down with lengthy phone calls and was persistent about you sending her money. This is NOT how a legitimate operation would conduct themselves. Thankfully your bank has acted in your best interests. Please block her and then put it out of your mind. Scammers are everywhere and they prey on people at their most vulnerable times I am sad to say.

MaizieD Fri 31-Jul-26 14:07:07

I do hope the OP has taken all this very good advice.

I had someone ring me about 3 years ago offering me £15 a share for my now completely nonexistent Northern Rock shares. I said I'd check it out and she could ring me a a few days. I never heard from her again.

Hammo Fri 31-Jul-26 14:06:53

This is almost certainly a scam. PLEASE don’t send any money - and as other wise folk on here have said - don’t send any emails. Don’t send any details. So very sorry - these things are so upsetting!

RobertaDanversWalker Fri 31-Jul-26 14:06:29

Don't send that email! Criminals like these do not deserve any engagement from you.

PommiePrincess Fri 31-Jul-26 14:03:28

Don't put yourself down. These scammers are professionals and could fool the smartest of people.

Foxyferret Fri 31-Jul-26 14:03:16

Do not send them anything, this has all the hallmarks of a scam. My dad when he was alive lost money to someone supposed to be from the Spanish lottery, send money to receive your winnings. Nothing ever came back, they just kept asking for more money to release the funds.

Rocketstop2 Fri 31-Jul-26 14:02:19

Most definitely a scam as everyone else has said.Have NO further contact with these despicable people.
I'm sorry for your recent loss.

Sue500 Fri 31-Jul-26 14:00:33

It is a scam I know someone who lost thousands to them. Please Don’t do it.

DrWatson Fri 31-Jul-26 14:00:33

Please OP, this is ABSOLUTELY a SCAM.

We get several scam attempts a week, this -- as a number have usefully told you -- has a mass of the usual scam fingerprints!!

Forward your emails to >>>>> [email protected]

And for you and other readers, if you get a dodgy TEXT, forward to 7726 (then delete them, of course!)

25Avalon Fri 31-Jul-26 13:59:27

Why is this post being politicised? What on earth does Reform have to do with this? Cillafan has narrowly avoided being scammed. Thank goodness.