I too am struggling with VA. I used Replens quite happily for several years but it's just not enough now.
So I am now trialling Gina (esodrial). You can buy it over the counter but you will need to speak to a pharmacist and answer a short questionnaire. I couldn't get a drs appt and was made to see The practice nurse was worse than useless. She basically said "well what do you expect at your age".
It's Been two weeks with the Gina now so still early days but I do feel a bit more comfortable. Apparently it takes about 8 weeks to fully kick in but I definitely see some improvement,
My sister is an assistant pharmacist. She spoke to the chief pharmacist on my behalf and he has suggested I also try menopace plus. You can take both Gina and menopace together.
I've just started the menopace yesterday because I wanted to ease myself in gently and see how the Gina went first just in case there were any side effects.
The pharmacist said I need it give it months and if no real improvement see a gynaecologist.
Hope you find something to make things a bit easier.
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