Unlike a robbery or evan a 'stranger rape', a case involving DA is never 'impersonal' and the legal system as it stands can often further victimise the victim. It is invidious that, having been beaten to a pulp by this man she, and the children, have to remain financially dependent upon him - leaving them still in his power and at his mercy if he pays up or not as the mood takes him. If he tells the Benefits Agency that he is paying x amount per month and shows them the standing order to prove it, he can cancel that at any time, the onus then being on the woman to PROVE that she has not received the agreed amount and WITH NO ENTITLEMENT TO STATE BENEFITS, for herself or the children in the meantime. The kind of 'man' who has been physically violent to his partner is also the kind who will, given the opportunity, take pleasure or revenge from playing a cat and mouse game over money and child access for years on end.
On the other hand it would not fair or just if a man (or a well off woman) who is not guilty of any crime is forced to pay on-going maintenance while a proven criminal is absolved of that responsibility, for the protection of the victim, and we, the tax payers, have to pick up the tab. It would require the wisdom of Soloman to resolve these disputes - something this Judge obviously lacks.