JessM UK people have been unfriendly and would sell up and move rather than live next door to an immigrant family? A broad generalisation surely? I don't know anyone with that implied mind set.
I understand Gillybob's point. There are areas of this country which are alien, where you can walk down the street and feel awkward and not especially welcome. Remember the woman a few months back who after living all her life in South London, moved out because she felt like an intruder. Presumably you would find fault with her attitude.
You mention the US - immigrants to that country had to learn the language and integrate and indeed, they actually were proud to become American citizens. We have welcomed immigrants here for a variety of reasons, as have other countries but if they want to share in the benefits of living in this country then they have to integrate with us, not the reverse.
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