J08, I didn't say anything about the perpetrator of the crime being entitled to 'love and understanding'. No-one knows what this woman has already been through, do they, apart from the fact that she was abused earlier in her life, according to the report. Possibly not much support was given to her throughout her younger life - who knows?
Rightly or wrongly, how much baying for blood has there been when a sexual predator has carried out an awful crime? If the parents of a sexually abused child had been able to lay their hands on a knife when they first discovered what had happened, would they perhaps have wanted to carry out the same 'operation' on the predator?
Not right. It's wrong. But in the heat of the moment, when she's had enough? Who knows?