absent - other than the obvious constant media attention, and never being short of cash, I wonder how different the royal family are in 'pretending to live a normal life', than the rest of us are. Nightowl is spot on about Uncle Gary, but I suspect the Queen has been living with dodgy relatives for much of her life. There's Andrew and his dodgy pals, Edward and internet gossip, her sister Margaret's lifestyle, the list is endless. It's my firm belief that Helen Mirren's performance as the Queen in the film, and on stage, has melted my heart towards her maj.