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Flowerofthewest Wed 19-Mar-14 22:44:33

May have missed this if someone has commented then I apologise. What do others think of the Facebook/Twitter 'no make up selfie' thing that has gone viral.

thatbags Fri 21-Mar-14 07:07:20

I'll sponsor you, galen. I'll shave all my head hair off if you lot sponsor me.

thatbags Fri 21-Mar-14 07:06:13

Yes, I know it's a gimmick. Just saying I find such gimmicks distasteful. I expected that to be a minority view so I am not surprised by the reaction here.

I'm pleased that awareness is being raised, though I find it surprising that people need to be made more aware of baldness and other effects of cancer treatment. I thought everyone knew already. I wish fundraising could be done in a better way, without reinforcing silly ideas about how women (should) look.

Posing topless or shaving all one's head hair off to raise funds for such a cause would be brave. Not wearing make-up isn't.

Galen Thu 20-Mar-14 23:25:12

Why not? My body is not pretty but I'm almost 70!
Come on.
Sponsor me!
If I can get £1000 pounds, I'll do it!
I've sent a thing to GNHQ to see if they'll set it up.
I suppose it's a bit of ' calender girls' but with smaller buns!
Come on friends!
Let's raise some money for cancer awareness . This means earlier diagnosis and therefore higher cure rate!

Aka Thu 20-Mar-14 23:19:37

I've heard of this campaign but what is BEAT?

merlotgran Thu 20-Mar-14 23:17:06

I was happy to donate to BEAT so what's the point of the selfie?

Aka Thu 20-Mar-14 23:14:56

Galen shock

Lona Thu 20-Mar-14 23:10:00

I agree Galen and Aka. I've done it and donated, which I, and probably lots of others, wouldn't have done.
No one has to join in if they don't want to.
It's a 'gimmick' which has raised a lot of money over the last couple of days.

Galen Thu 20-Mar-14 23:05:55

NO!
It is now on the news that breast Ca is very prevalent in the over 70's
penguin
Ok!
I'll take on the challenge if I get enough sponsorship from GN members!
I will pose naked, apart, of course, from my pearls!

GNHQ .

I need your help!

Aka Thu 20-Mar-14 22:58:21

Well said .Galen
Nobody's forcing anyone to do it, it's entirely up to the individual to post, donate, etc. It's not up to others to criticise how other people choose to raise money. If you don't like it then tough.

penguinpaperback Thu 20-Mar-14 22:57:23

Aren't we all aware of cancer by now Galen?
And too late you have offered now. smile

penguinpaperback Thu 20-Mar-14 22:54:03

I wore scarves rather than wigs, they felt more comfortable but was bare at home. Looking at baby pictures I had a very funny shaped head but now it's a round little malteaser. The GC were great and know I will lose my hair again. The worst thing, don't know if others felt the same was losing my eyebrows and eyelashes. Hard to draw eyebrows on with no guide line as it were.

Galen Thu 20-Mar-14 22:50:19

For heavens sake.
It's is a gimmick!
But it's making more people aware of Ca.
It's also raising money for a GOOD CAUSE!
If people would donate money for me to pose naked !
I'd do it!
Bug I think, they'd be much better to donate money to persuade me not to!

Galen Thu 20-Mar-14 22:44:20

Mo Mowlan!
If it raises Ca awareness on any form, I'm for it!
I'd even go topless! (Now that's a horrifying threat if there ever was one!)

thatbags Thu 20-Mar-14 22:30:53

Yes, it is insensitive to suggest, as the gimmick does, intentionally or not, that a person (especially a woman goes without saying) cannot look their best without make-up so showing your face without make-up is "brave". The idea is gross, just gross.

Donate by all means.

Ana Thu 20-Mar-14 22:22:33

(really must try to curb my exclamation mark addiction...hmm)

Ana Thu 20-Mar-14 22:21:22

I don't really understand it - yes, cancer patients can look awful during treatment and without hair etc., but they don't usually go out and about without makeup, or wigless!

Anyone who has a serious illness doesn't always look their best, but highlighting in this way seems insensitive to me!

merlotgran Thu 20-Mar-14 22:19:02

I was nominated by someone on facebook but ignored it. I don't like being put on the spot.

Galen Thu 20-Mar-14 22:15:38

My dd has done it and donated.
I would if I could work out how to!
I'd nominate Jingle and Cari

thatbags Thu 20-Mar-14 22:08:42

This person has put it well. It is shocking that it is thought brave to take a selfie without make-up.

Another charity stunt to add to my list of what puts me off charities.

This morning I thought it was just me feeling uncomfortable with the gimmick. It is some comfort to know that there are others out there equally appalled.

Aka Thu 20-Mar-14 10:44:51

Me too!

rosesarered Thu 20-Mar-14 10:44:21

I would rather just send them a cheque [and do.]

Aka Thu 20-Mar-14 10:36:18

It's to highlight the plight of cancer patients, many of whom have lost their hair, are blown up on steroids, and not looking their best, I'm told. It's doing the rounds of my DD's friends (in their 40s) and has raised quite a bit of cash as * grannyisland* says.

grannyisland Thu 20-Mar-14 09:50:31

More than £15,000 donated so far so can't be bad. smile

grannyisland Thu 20-Mar-14 09:49:11

The ones I've seen have been girls in their twenties and thirties. I wondered if it was a sort of dare for those who wouldn't think of being seen in public without makeup (unlike me who rarely bothers!)

DebnCreme Thu 20-Mar-14 09:32:14

My steam driven ipad doesn't have a. Camera - don't think I will upgrade yet awhile grin