Gracesgran relocating to get a job in another part of the country is easier said than done.
JessM I did not say they should relocate to get a job, just that they should be relocated to cheaper housing, and an area where housing is not at a premium, if they are not working. Job hunting can follow. We should not continue to pay excessive housing benefit for any length of time.
As for the courage to move, etc., I am sorry but your first priority is to work to put a roof over your, and any dependants, head and food on the table. I believe that. If you are truly incapacitated then you should be given help but all the caveats you mention are cutting no ice with me. They would have done at one time but there are to many people having a really hard time who would never consider not working.
One of the things that is often trotted out is uprooting the children. I had 11 different schools, three of them secondary schools, the last a boarding school. Was this because my father was unemployed ... no, it was because he was in the RAF, defending his country.
I hear the same about the size of house people must have if it is paid for by the tax payer. I know several families paying their own way whose homes would not come up to this level. Help is fine; I am very much in favour, but you have to help yourself too.
The system was not brought about to give people the choice of not working.