I am not sure about tutoring, it might depend on the circumstances. If I felt my gc was in a school which was not giving him the necessary help I would probably pay for tuition but choose the tutor very carefully. Perhaps I would also pay if the local comp had a poor reputation.
Where I took the 11+ there were places at grammar schools for only 3% of girls but 20% of boys. How was that fair? The trouble then, and probably still, is that it is different in different counties and yet still children ae judged on pass or fail. Some 11 year olds are far more advanced than others who are young for their age but this can even up over the next 5 years so passing or failing at this age is very unfair. Fine if you are one of the lucky ones but what about the rest?
I know some people who went to grammar schools and struggled to get a couple of 0 levels and others who 'failed' who got As and went to uni.
I would prefer good comprehensives where there is enough flexibility for children to move up or down according to their abilities at different stages.
Alphabetical Girls' and Boys' Names Oct '25
because it was in special measures two years ago and not in an affluent area. When I was at school anyone who went to an Academy was 'posh'