Thanks melogran for your sympathetic words. My FIL was in Costal command and I know that they had a pretty hairy time. Of course during the war Churchill was an inspiration, and I'm certainly not denying that, but after the war, let's just say political expediency was very hard for the thousands of people like my mother who, it would appear, had firstly married a hero, who had overnight turned into a murderer. The monument in London is great, but for my family and many like us it is 60 years to late.
Of course Fighter Command were fantastically brave and deserved every accolade, but seeing my mother's tears (as if she hadn't shed enough) in the decades that followed the war as we had to listen in silence to the denigration of our airmen, never mind no medal, no monument, was at times very hard. I have (finally!) visited my father's grave in Holland where he lies with his companions in a Protestant graveyard in a small town in Den Hout. The care and reference shown by the local Dutch population is both humbling and almost overwhelming. They all, to this day,including young people, regard all the fallen airmen as saviours and heroes, and simply couldnot understand our attitude to them over all these years.