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11 yr old boy in Shades of Grey outfit

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TriciaF Fri 06-Mar-15 11:19:39

I heard about this from the Radio 4 news this morning
www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-manchester-31760713
His mother was interviewed, saying that the school was wrong to ban him from the Book Fair.
I'm gob-smacked about it - what idea of moral standards does it pass on to children, what attitude towards women? Glad the school banned him though.

rosequartz Sun 08-Mar-15 17:14:46

ps thanks for the link soon I didn't see that thread grin

rosequartz Sun 08-Mar-15 17:14:11

effing meaning flipping I presume!

jinglbellsfrocks Sun 08-Mar-15 16:15:02

Or Pippy-longstocking.

jinglbellsfrocks Sun 08-Mar-15 16:14:06

FFS (which, being interpreted, means 'for flip's sake' (of course)) soon, stop being so effing bossy! Post what you like, where you like mishap. hmm

I would go as Mrs Pepperpot. I lke Mrs Pepperpot.

granjura Sun 08-Mar-15 15:56:38

We used to have a dressing-up disco on the last night of our school ski trips. Some of the boys dressed up and were made up as women- and a few enjoyed it so much we decided it was time to stop!!!

annodomini Sun 08-Mar-15 11:38:03

My GS refused to be the Boy in a Dress! Went as Bart Simpson instead.

Mishap Sun 08-Mar-15 10:37:33

Oops!

soontobe Sun 08-Mar-15 10:36:24

We are on this thread Mishap
www.gransnet.com/forums/chat/1214479-Its-Gransnet-World-Book-Day

Mishap Sun 08-Mar-15 10:25:00

I think I will dress up next year - Bridget Jones? - Miss Jean Brodie?

Who would you be?

rosequartz Sun 08-Mar-15 10:21:32

Then again, if the voucher encourages some parents who would not normally take children to a bookshop to buy a book, that can't be a bad thing, surely?

Not sure about dressing up beyond primary though.

rosequartz Sun 08-Mar-15 10:16:31

Frozen - the up-to-date friendly Disney version of The Snow Queen.

Everything has been Disneyfied these days.
As the girl in the Disney shop told me earnestly 'Snow White is our oldest princess. She dates from 1937!'
I said 'I think she's a few hundred years older than that in fact!'

jinglbellsfrocks Sun 08-Mar-15 09:58:40

Well done that boy! smile

Alygran Sun 08-Mar-15 09:58:06

There was a young boy on Chris Evans show on Thursday and Friday, just before the 7.30 news who went to school in a dress!

jinglbellsfrocks Sun 08-Mar-15 09:10:47

Nannygoat12345 your post sounds very - normal.

A breath of fresh air in fact. smile

Ana Sat 07-Mar-15 22:39:51

I agree, NannyGoat. Last year my DD had to cobble together something for her twin girls to 'go as' for WBD but this year their school saw sense and had a local author of children's books in to give a talk.

NannyGoat12345 Sat 07-Mar-15 21:39:13

When I read the story in the DM, I had to chuckle.... I thought maybe the cable ties and the eye mask were a step too far (not that I have read the books or seen the film - cba), but I did think the teachers at the school should maybe 'lighten up' a bit. I used to hate the dressing up days when my kids were at school, it is not that easy to 'knock up an outfit' if you are not handy with a needle and no way could you compete anyhow with parents who specifically hired an outfit for a day. Most of the kids I have seen going to school this year seem to be dressed up as superheroes and girls dressed as princesses from Frozen, surely these are comic and film characters, not books, so I don't think World Book Day has any real effect on schoolkids (only their parents who have to try and find the cheapest book in a shop to use the wretched £1 off token)!

Deedaa Sat 07-Mar-15 20:51:17

I saw the Daniel Craig version of Casino Royale at the cinema and was appalled that it had a 12 certicate. I thought the violence in it was far too graphic for children and far worse than the rather mild sex content.

rosequartz Sat 07-Mar-15 19:10:47

I agree absent

I did read a JB book when I was young but then threw it out to the jumble sale - probably worth a fortune now!

absent Sat 07-Mar-15 18:58:33

James Bond has had a major lambasting here, but I'm pretty sure that the books are very much tamer than the films. I read a couple of them when I was 12 as part of a project to write a pastiche of a popular author. I wasn't very keen and haven't read any since.

Yes, indeed, he did kill but only enemies of the realm and with government authority – isn't that what the 00 signifies? You could reasonably compare him with some of the cartoon super-heroes who regularly save the world on some children's television channels or the cowboy heroes who shot the men in black hats on our own childhood television programmes. He drank alcoholic drinks but was never drunk and sicking up in the high street. His liaisons with women were always consensual and must have seemed hugely sophisticated and quite unreal in the narrow-minded post-war world. He was broken-hearted when his wife was killed just after their marriage.

I doubt if many young people would find these classic Cold War era stories at all exciting these days. It's the movies with all their special effects that capture the audiences – and the recent ones were not even based on books by Ian Fleming.

This was World Book Day, not World Film Day, after all.

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 07-Mar-15 10:58:28

I would never get one of them into it. I can't even catch 'em these days to give 'em a kiss! hmm

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 07-Mar-15 10:56:24

Oh! I see. Sorry! grin

Oh I would look lovely. smile Size could be a problem though.

granjura Sat 07-Mar-15 10:53:11

pictures of you in a pink fairy frock jingl;)

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 07-Mar-15 10:51:56

Granjura would it have pictures^?! shock

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 07-Mar-15 10:50:35

Juliette grin

I would love to know if my older GS has heard of FSOG, but I 'm not brave enough to ask! I think I'm pretty certain the younger one hasn't, but who knows?! Wouldn't put it past his lot. grin

Thanks for the book recommendation though. Have had the first two sent direct to his house as I won't see them till next week. smile

Juliette Sat 07-Mar-15 10:37:31

jing Young Bond was on DGs suggested reading list for the summer holidays before he started at the High School so he'd be rising twelve. According to DD he enjoyed it so much that they went on to buy the whole series. Hope your grandsons enjoy it too.
DD also tells me that he dipped into Fifty Shades, there was a well thumbed copy doing the rounds at school! Much like Lady Chatterly did when I was a very innocent thirteen year old, never looked at a Forget-me-Not in the same way since.