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Some interesting Quaker stories from WW1.
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Here is an extract from an article on reasons for wearing a white poppy :
"Many of us instead wear a white poppy, the symbol of peace. We do so not because we feel the suffering of those who died or were bereaved any less, everyone agrees that we should commemorate the sacrifice.
But we fear that in remembering the First World War, too many people in government and the military are using the compassion that people feel to justify present and future wars."
stopwar.org.uk/news/why-i-will-wear-a-white-poppy-to-honour-the-dead-on-remembrance-day
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Some interesting Quaker stories from WW1.

perhaps someone pinched them!
Did you know they were opium poppies from Afghanistan?
That's a good idea, roseq. Thanks.
I'll look out for some for my son's partner. I am always looking for something small to put inside crackers at a certain time of the year.
I grew the 'Danish Flag' ones - perhaps you would like those!
However, they seem to have disappeared, they were lovely.
I had salmon pink ones, but they get too large and fall over - and take over!
So I have got rid of the large parent plant and kept some little ones for next year.
Perhaps I should take some seedheads off surreptitiously and scatter them along the cycle track so they spread into the wild, rose.
When we had a guest house we used to grow lots of poppies in pots, and give seeds away to people who expressed an interest in them. Most of them were double oriental ones.
I don't think I've seen them growing wild.
We have lots of areas of wild flowers around the outskirts of our town now - planted by the County Council.
They are lovely.
Sorry, off piste a bit
I think they are planted because they are just in one plot, one large clump next to some pink ones, and these allotments have only been going for two years, rose.
I wonder if they were planted or just wild ones djen
Ana - I just love your post of 20.24.09. The answer must surely be 'yes'!(Why don't we have a 'like' button?)
Re the white poppies, I always thought they meant 'let's remember those that gave their lives but, at the same time, pray for peace'. I don't see how that can be offensive to anyone. Those who died fighting most likely also wanted peace.
Rosequartz, just thought you'd like to know that I saw lots of white poppies growing in the community allotments at the farm near me.
You said earlier you'd never seen them growing.
Wonderful post, thatbags.
Lovely prayer RQ.
I accept we have to make arms to defend but selling them ? Someone at an arms fare recently was shocked to see we sell instruments of torture such as leg irons and do so openly even though we are against torture and view it a crime
The OP says that in remembering the First World War, politicians are using people's compassion to justify further wars.
I don't think that they can seriously think that - how naive! And why do they quote just WW1?
Unless, of course, it comes out in the Chilcott Report that that was another of TB's excuses, if so, I will eat my words.
Criticising the RBL for using arms groups to sponsor events to raise money for their charity. Hmm, that's a complicated one. One could argue that it is unethical, then again one could argue that without weapons to use in defence of our freedom what kind of country would we be living in now?
I think one can only say manufacturers and suppliers of weapons to the nation's military forces are making a mockery of Remembrance Day if one truly thinks that nothing is worth fighting for.
If some things are worth fighting for, then there will be injuries and deaths as a result of the fighting. Helping to deal with those injuries and deaths is not mockery.
Even if one thinks nothing is worth fighting for and nothing is worth having military forces with weapons for (i.e. one doesn't think it's worth defending a country against savages like Nazis or Isis and the like), it still doesn't make sense to say helping injured people and the families of dead people is mockery.
It's not mockery from their point of view. It's dealing with the inevitable because of the plain fact that human beings fight each other. Always have.
According to Max Roser's worldindata.org though, our species is in fact fighting less now than ever before. I don't think there will ever be total world peace but we can carry on trying.
And we can carry on helping people who get injured doing what they feel is their duty.
I thought that it was accepted that the International Day of Peace was the day that the white poppy symbolised - obviously not! I do find it astonishing though, that you think that anything, Eloethan, could make a mockery of the notion of Remembrance Day.
I wasn't aware that the white poppy has it's own day. By contrast, the red poppy seems to have several days, if not weeks. Additionally, it won't have escaped a lot of people's notice that it appears to be obligatory for all TV presenters and guests to wear red poppies.
I say again that when the British Legion's commemorative events are part sponsored by arms companies it makes a mockery of the whole notion of Remembrance Day.
Yes, rose, I have rosemary growing in my garden.
White poppies do not have their own day. They have always been worn on remembrance day.
The day of peace is not the same.
Why such bother because some choose to wear a white poppy, just wear red only if that's what you choose, wear both or wear only a white. This is making a mockery out of the very thing the men died for, freedom and this includes freedom of choice. I don't care if anyone wears a poppy 365 days of the year, what a fuss, some posters feel strongly about wearing a white poppy not the business of anyone else. If a white poppy wearer said they thought red poppies wrong then go for the kill , no one has said it
Go for it, katek. Nice idea.
I wondered about crocheting my own tricolour poppy-red for remembrance, white for future peace and purple to commemorate all animals lost in war. A petal each.
A Prayer for Remembrance Day
Here’s a prayer of intercession for Remembrance Day (November 11). It comes from the Church of England website.
Prayer for Remembrance Day
Let us pray for all who suffer as a result of conflict,
and ask that God may give us peace:
for the service men and women
who have died in the violence of war,
each one remembered by and known to God;
may God give peace.
God give peace.
For those who love them in death as in life,
offering the distress of our grief
and the sadness of our loss;
may God give peace.
God give peace.
For all members of the armed forces
who are in danger this day,
remembering family, friends
and all who pray for their safe return;
may God give peace.
God give peace.
For civilian women, children and men
whose lives are disfigured by war or terror,
calling to mind in penitence
the anger and hatreds of humanity;
may God give peace.
God give peace.
For peacemakers and peacekeepers,
who seek to keep this world secure and free;
may God give peace.
God give peace.
For all who bear the burden and privilege of leadership,
political, military and religious;
asking for gifts of wisdom and resolve
in the search for reconciliation and peace;
may God give peace.
God give peace.
O God of truth and justice,
we hold before you those whose memory we cherish,
and those whose names we will never know.
Help us to lift our eyes above the torment of this broken world,
and grant us the grace to pray for those who wish us harm.
As we honour the past,
may we put our faith in your future;
for you are the source of life and hope,
now and for ever.
Amen.
Thanks for telling me, rose. I will have to wear just a white poppy
djen you could, if you wished to wear both, wear a sprig of rosemary with it, then it wouldn't be just red and white.
Rosemary for remembrance, which we wear at Gallipoli remembrance services (Anzac Day).
I may not agree with you, but I do think you should have the freedom to choose; after all, that is what they fought and died for.
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