By the way, Alea, I resurrected the thread, and if I hadn't Badenkate was going to. I didn't resurrect it so that someone else who had flounced off could come back on again. I seem to recall that you were going to flounce off at the same time.
Some of us care about those who are tarnished with the idea that lots of benefit claimants are fraudsters, as in the op. That's why I gave the important link to the subject.
Grannyandgrampy, there is no reason it should backfire on you. It is all done in confidence. If it's as you say it is, there are numerous people who could denounce the family, not just you.
I still say it's wrong for people to complain about those who defraud and do not do anything about it. If you are not going to do anything, it's wrong to cast aspersions. It's better just to keep quiet.
That's why people think there are 47% of benefit claimants committing fraud, because everyone claims to know somebody who does it.
I am more concerned about those benefit claimants who are defrauded, while tax cheats are told it's acceptable.