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Remembrance Day Ceremony

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Devorgilla Fri 23-Oct-15 22:22:12

This is to be cut short because of the age of the Queen and other Veterans. Fair enough! They are getting on a bit...BUT why should only David Cameron have the right to lay a wreath as a Government Official? Don't know about you but I take exception to this in the Year of the Somme. The majority of dead and injured were from the working class so why do we deny other parties more representative of that group the right to lay the wreath? By all means make life easier for her Majesty but let all parties be represented. It is important to me and I think a lot of other people who knew families whose men never came home. You were wrongly advised on this Your Majesty and should reverse the decision.

Ana Sat 24-Oct-15 17:48:02

What about the veterans, some of whom are even older than the Queen and Duke? I'm sure they wouldn't want to be packed off after the initial wreath-laying, although they'd probably appreciate not having to stand around for so long (even in a wheechair the weather can sometimes be pretty inclement in November!).

rosesarered Sat 24-Oct-15 17:47:07

And the opinions of everyone else? For a Christian, your posts have not been at all caring about people.

Anniebach Sat 24-Oct-15 17:45:15

A very good idea anjela.

Rosesarered , your opinion of me troubles me not in the slightest.

ajanela Sat 24-Oct-15 17:38:06

Why can't the queen and duke of Edinburgh lay their wreaths and then go inside and watch from a window or go home. The younger royals can do the rest.

rosesarered Sat 24-Oct-15 17:34:54

looks like it's just you anniebach that thinks in a certain way.Why you do, God knows, but it sounds very unpleasant.

Anniebach Sat 24-Oct-15 17:33:59

Really Nigglynellie? There are hundreds of veterans? Not a case of only wanting the young and fit, trust you to twist things . I have given my opinion without resorting to sniping , doesn't work here does it

nigglynellie Sat 24-Oct-15 17:22:34

It's not pleasing a few people! It's showing consideration and concern to very elderly infirmed people on a cold November day. Perhaps you feel they shouldn't be there at all, and it should just be for the young and fit. Perhaps you weren't affected in any way by any conflict, and just fail to understand how much this day means to these old soldiers, and the pride they feel. Old fashioned I know, and probably pretty pathetic to some; but very real to them, and surely a little diplomatic concern and compassion has to be a good thing - but clearly not to the lesser parties, who will never miss a chance to make something of nothing to make a political point.

Anniebach Sat 24-Oct-15 16:59:58

It was rosesarered who claimed I held my views because of 'class' Rosequartz , a lie but that doesn't matter to her. So I said my views are not based on politics or class, I truely think the service should be the same as other years and I am sorry the veterans and the queen find it too much because of their age , but for me one day in the year which is purely for Rememberance shared by our four countries plus the commonwealth countries should not be tampered with to please a few people.

nigglynellie Sat 24-Oct-15 14:32:46

I agree rosequartz, I think this is precisely what they're about, and frankly the sooner the better, at least we could all quarrel in peace!!!!

rosequartz Sat 24-Oct-15 14:32:31

anniebach I did not mean you on this thread either when I said 'disgusting', I meant the leaders of the more minor political parties creating a fuss, either for their own egos or to make political capital out of this most sober of days.
smile

rosequartz Sat 24-Oct-15 14:27:49

And those who were lost and their relatives too, of course.

rosequartz Sat 24-Oct-15 14:27:17

nigglynellie
They are doing all they can to encourage that view I think!! Making themselves as much of a nuisance as possible until we all say bugger off back to Scotland the lot of you how about another referendum?

It's not about the egos of Salmand et al (his ego needs pricking anyway, I have a good hatpin here).
It's about the veterans and those who served, including the Queen.

Elegran Sat 24-Oct-15 14:27:04

I think the men and women in all more recent conflicts would agree on being considerate to veterans, and honouring the dead was still planned.

Anniebach I agree that you said nothing about class or political parties - it was Devorgilla who thought that "other parties more representative of that group". ie not DC, should have the opportunity to place wreaths - (not that it appeared that any other classes/parties were being excluded, just all acting in unison instead of separately, and in addition to the PM)

It was Devorgilla I was referring to when asking whether a left-wing PM would have been OK as a wreath-layer (but you are so firmly established in the collective GN mind as a champion of the left and the working class that it would not be surprising if I had meant you.

nigglynellie Sat 24-Oct-15 14:22:25

Yes, I will grant J.C. that. It's a pity the SNP don't pack their goods and chattles and buzz off back to Scotland and stay there! Let's hope there's another opportunity soon, and this time not a lost one!!

nigglynellie Sat 24-Oct-15 14:19:12

I agree rosequartz, obviously this would have to have been discussed and decided upon with the appropriate people, not just pulled out of the hat. But, surprise, surprise, backs are up and hackles raised, so common sense and compassion have to give way to, 'politics'!!!

rosequartz Sat 24-Oct-15 14:16:40

At least Jeremy Corbyn seems to be happy to fall in with whatever has been decided.
It is the other leaders of the other smaller parties who are creating a fuss.

nigglynellie Sat 24-Oct-15 14:13:38

This proposed alteration was nothing to do with messing about with tradition, but everything to do with compassion for very elderly proud men and women who are nearing the end of their lives, and who served this country well, rising above political affiliation. This includes our Queen, who has always without fail, risen to the occasion, whoever and whatever was asked of her. She is now nearly 90 years old, her husband of nearly 70 years, now aged 94, so surely a little consideration and compassion could be shown both to them and to those gallant folk whose like we won't see again, without turning it into a political snarling match. FGS, does every common denominator boil down to politics?!

rosequartz Sat 24-Oct-15 14:12:58

I objected because it all seemed to happen very quickly and without any real discussion with the others
Do we know that though Devorgilla?

There is so much organisation behind an event like this I cannot believe that the Palace, the Royal British Legion, Veterans' Associations and all other organisations involved were not consulted and did not know of and approve in advance any slight change in the arrangements.

Politicians are there to lay the wreaths on behalf of their parties and fall in line with what has been decided.

Anniebach Sat 24-Oct-15 13:48:48

Elegran, I said nothing about political parties, all I am saying is the service is for the country to remember and honour the dead , no other reason for it, yes the veterans fought, so did the men and women in wars and conflicts since.

I find some here are being hypocritical , first to shout we must honour our traditions - I am all for abandoning quite a few - but no problem with messing around with one of our most important traditions, honouring the dead of wars and conflicts

rosequartz Sat 24-Oct-15 13:11:22

How sad that politics has to be dragged into this.

In fact, not sad, disgusting imo.

nigglynellie Sat 24-Oct-15 13:00:58

Well maybe D.C. did have some hideous devious politic agenda here, I doubt it, but how would I know?! But as far as I'm concerned is it not beyond everyone to have just one day in the year that people could leave politics at home, and actually think about what might be best for other, mainly elderly, often infirmed members of society instead of turning even this into a political one upmanship circus.

Devorgilla Sat 24-Oct-15 12:35:42

I don't think anyone is suggesting that it would be different if it was a left wing PM. I objected because it all seemed to happen very quickly and without any real discussion with the others. Discussion with all concerned is a key element of democracy, especially for such an emotive Ceremony. All wars are political and, by default, all Remembrance Ceremonies carry an element of politics in them, international, national or party. In this case DC, as PM, 'agreed' with the Queen that he should be the sole politician to lay a wreath on his own. Whether this was to save her discomfort or for less noble reasons only he can say. I accept that that is a role the PM of the day carries out. So too, up to now, do the leaders of the other main parties lay their wreath on their own. I have watched this ceremony over the years and I can't see that those leaders doing it together saves that much time. The main concern for the Veterans is their age and of course consideration should be given to that. Most of our generation are very grateful they made the sacrifice so that we could live in freedom. Those freedoms though have to be jealously guarded, as once lost, they will be that much harder for future generations to get back.

nigglynellie Sat 24-Oct-15 11:58:57

I'm at a complete loss at some of the comments here. As far as I'm aware the PM of the day, whatever party he represents, has always laid the wreath on his/her own, followed by other party then country leaders. So to suggest that this is somehow an ego trip for David Cameron is clearly absurd. Surely it's not beyond even the SNP, to have just a little compassion for a very elderly stalwart old lady who has imo served this country admirably for most of her adult life. What a life sentence that has been, I wouldn't have wanted it in spite of all that wealth!! A lot of the veterans are now very old, but also very proud, and perhaps a tiny bit of consideration for them, bearing in mind what they did for us wouldn't go amiss. Annibach I find your comments inexplicable, but then I suppose I would! and before you jump at me my mother was one of those widows with a baby to support, on a very modest pension, and yes it was tough, you are right there. That is why when I see those gallant old men marching so proudly in honour of their dead comrades, my heart too swells with pride at how brave they were and humbled by the debt we undoubtedly owe them. It is about them, it is about the gallant young people who to this day put their lives on the line to defend this country. It is also a reminder of the horrors of war, the suffering and shocking waste of lives young and old, so to all you veterans past and present, I for one shall salute you.

Elegran Sat 24-Oct-15 11:54:49

"The veterans are there to honour the dead, their comrades" and they are the ones who actively remember exactly what it was like, and the faces of their comrades many years ago, and our head of state is of a similar age, and can also remember the years of war.

How can you complain that they shouldn't be there if they get tired and feel the cold? It sounds to me like bitching on principle about a head of state you don't approve of.

If it were a left-wing Prime Minister who was laying a wreath on behalf of the country, would you see that as better than DC laying it? He is after all the official head of the elected government of the day. Or is it only the head of your own favoured party who can qualify for that position? What happened to democracy?

lefthanded Sat 24-Oct-15 11:45:33

My father, who turned 100 in April this year, was offered to chance to attend the ceremony at the Cenotaph. Part of the conditions were that he had to be able to "march for two miles then stand for two hours". He seriously considered doing it as he is quite capable of both the marching and the standing (although either myself or my brother would have had to accompany him marching as his eyesight is very poor now). The only reason he declined was the prospect that it might be raining. If the ceremony had been shorter I'm sure he would have gone.