Whilst on MN a week or so ago someone posted a link to an article about life in Afghanistan for women in the 1950s/60s and '70s, what it showed was quite breathtaking, women at university lectures, mixed graduations, uncovered heads, mothers in parks with their children, women shopping all going freely about their business generally, wearing the clothes of the time. Whilst I suspect that in rural areas it may have been different what it illustrated was a society that was not so different to our own, now it's a million miles apart. It also occurred to me that many of first generation Pakistani Indian sub continent immigrants to our country, after a period of time assimilated. We have to accept for various reasons there has been a metamorphosis back to a hard line and intransigent form of Islam which is very much at odds with our society, which I don't perceive was there from the outset. I think whoever is in power, be it right or left curbs need to be put into place to make sure that insidious practices don't become the norm here. Cameron's initiative does feed into a wider picture.
I'd like to think we could "win hearts and minds" but I don't know how you can convince deeply ingrained male retrograde attitudes hell bent on subjugating their female population from such an early age to change.
I completely agree with thatbags assertion about having regard for the cultural norms. To flout them shows a disrespect/disdain for the host country, not by the cowed women, but often by the arrogant men. Westerners living in Muslim cultures know that they have to abide by the draconian laws of say Saudi, or pay the penalty that's it no if's, or buts!