I have not long been with Gransnet and after reading through this forum I feel sad. Everyone is entitled to express an opinion on the subject of the forum, but I didn't realise that this also meant contributors could be bitchy and snipe at and about each other!
If we can return to the subject of the Queen and abdication I'd like to make the following comments:
No I don't think she will abdicate because she dedicated 'her whole life be it short or long .......' She is simply the best.
Charles - he has got a lot of stick over the years. He could have just lounged around waiting for his time to come. Instead of which he set up the Prince's Trust and is involved with many charities besides running the Duchy of Cornwall. All of this has to be done in such a way that he can work and be involved, but at the drop of a hat when the time comes he can leave it without damaging the work he has done. When the time does arrive he will serve his country well as his mother has.
Charles' marriage to Diana was for dynastic reasons. Eldest sons have to marry and produce heirs. This has happened throughout countless generations both in royalty and the upper classes where family estates and money are involved and they all know this from the start. After the births of the heir and a spare both partners were 'free' hopefully with some discretion to find happiness. The difference with Charles and Diana was the media. The world knew what was going on.
William - was reported to have said years ago that he didn't want to be King. Who could blame him? Who would want that job? Sadly for him he is the first born and he now seems to have settled to learning the job. I think the Queen has made a fantastic effort to guide him. He has been allowed to marry for love, he has the opportunity, denied to the Queen, to have a relatively normal life with his children while he can, but is now gradually taking on more royal duties.
Clothes - At the Patron's Lunch where many of the family were in evidence information was given about the designers of the clothes worn. I bet you that those clothes did not have to be paid for. That was free advertising for the designers!!