As the hysterical left weep into their lattes...

Do you know, I can't remember how you do it.

Oh right. No idea then, I'm afraid. I've only had five in my three and a half years.

"MAGGIEMAYBE". I would like to stop the posts coming in, Maggiemaybe.

Can you tell me how? I thought (hoped) it would be a different sort of forum. I guess, this morning, I hoped that this thread was just annobjectionable headline with a more thoughtful discussion. I am one of those people who keep on hoping things will be better..

I cannot tell you how low I feel having participated, having read several threads, and joined ina v small number. I realise it is better for my well being to get out, but I don't know how.

I suppose I am one of the numerous on this site that you would describe as 'delicate flowers'. I think we are just ordinary people who are upset beyond measure at this sort of discourse. Maybe I am too delicate..or you,are unable or unwilling to walk in someone else's shoes...so are not able to understand why this discourse causes so much harm.

Why not just help me sign out? I will be happier..and so will you. I will go. i want to go.

You need to click on FAQ in the blue outline panel at the top of this page, and then click on "My Gransnet" and take it from here.

Best not to do it though. Stay till it all cools down.

GNHQ, there is no point in me actually contributing to this thread. Can we have some new emoticons please ? A yellow card, a red card and a ducking stool for the real witches.

Nonio, I'm truly sorry if you have been upset by anything I've said, but I really don't know what that would be. I have just tried to explain that this is a discussion forum, and robust discussion is allowed. I certainly haven't insulted you, or anyone else.

I have already said that I don't know how to help you. Perhaps someone else can.

(I meant 'from there)

Maggiem I 'ave! (helped her)

I knew no one reads my posts!

Once you have opted out of being a member (de-registered) you will not get any PMs of course.

Sorry, jingl, cross posted.

Thanks Jiinglebells.

Here is the information (see end of post) for anyone else who is utterly disnechanted with Gransnet following this thread and wants to de-register. MAGGIEMAYBE. I don't suppose you wanted to cause pain. You do not have to be personally insulting...all you have to do is fertilise the ground of others who are insulting, humiliating and make unwarranted personal comments for them to flourish under the mistaken title of "robust" (I would say divisive and unhelpful) debate.

I have tried so hard today to make it more factual and more constructive but I have failed (again).

Plenty of crying in my coffee today. Cheerio to those that have remained polite and factual regardless of your views. A glimmer of light in a rather dark landscape.

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Nonio So because you object to the tone of some of our posts, we must moderate them to suit your tastes? You must have read a couple before you started posting.
If they offended you so much why did you join in.

Good grief!

That was to Nonio's post.

I think the article's funny, nonio – in a slightly wicked way, admittedly, but wicked as in mischievous but not nasty way and a trying to make people think way. Some of the examples of the reactions to the referendum result that Libby Purves gives in her article do appear a bit hysterical, and that's only a very few.

What she says about the hysterics, what Peter Tatchell says, what Chesterton said, and what Purves says towards the end about the disgusting campaigning of Farage are all good things to say said well.

So you don't like it and I do. Shrug.

"Hysterical left weeping into their lattes
I am not left, I am not weeping but I do drink latte (fills the gap between breakfast and lunch. And I did vote Remain after much wavering.
Or should I call lunch 'dinner' as I am not of the elite

Spot on, Elegran @ Mon 27-Jun-16 18:25:54

Fine, it has happened, no what I would have wanted, but why does this thread get so vicious, why can we not leave this to the politicians, they're so much better qualified. If people are upset because of Brexit, they have every right, the Leavers would certainly cry into their "lattes" as well had the outcome be a different one. Let's just hope the repercussions are not going to be too severe and let's support each other rather than throw insults about.

I have to admit I have not ploughed through all 10'pages of this thread. Who would have thought there was so much to say? Particularly as there is no shortage of other News and Politics threads, temperate or otherwise.
But I just wanted to say that of all of us, Elegran consistently chooses her words carefully, and her contributions are typically measured and courteous.
I also believe thatbags merely quoted the author of the article, so why the objection?
TBH were I to have judged the thread by mere skim reading, I might have taken offence on the part of others, but reading it carefully, I believe Libby Purves knows of what she speaks and is entitled to express her opinion. The "luvvies" are in any case better able to withstand criticism and to stand up for themselves than many of our generation who are being castigated and threatened with being thrown on the rubbish heap by the youngsters.
#blameCameronandnotyourGran.

I used to prefer cappucino, but I'm deffo a latte drinker now. Not at home where I just drink cafetièred coffee with cold milk added, but when out and about. Have you tried caramel latte, anyone? Great for an energy pickmeup though with thousands of calories no doubt (which is why it's an energy pickmeup; funny, that).

Been out this afternoon. - French lessons in case we still need to do a language test if we wish to take French citizenship!!!

Obie yes Tata is owned by a very good and big Indian Company who have pumped millions into the UK. . The fact they are Indian has no bearing on the fact about British industry - they have invested in the country and that is what counts surely - where they come from is immaterial. Unfortunately many of the Britush companies have invested elsewhere in the world where labour is so much cheaper.
Tata also have a big investment in the British car industry - hope they do not pull out of that too!

It is the racism which I find upsetting - it has been unleashed and for years people who have kept a low profile as far as this is concerned seem to think it is now OK to let their feelings out. It must be terrible for the people who were born in UK or lived within it for years to suddenly become the subject of this abuse.
I do not think it was the intention of the Brexit camp to incite this hatred by their campaign but they did focus on what they saw as being a good point of fear amongst the population and they have to take the blame for this result. It has tarnished the way in which they got a sort of majority opinion the referendum - but as another poster said it was not a majority of the people who voted that way but less than 40%.

The EU have made it quite clear again today that we will be totally out of the EU exactly two years after the clause 50 is started. It has also been reiterated that there will be no free trade agreement with Boris unless he remains in the club.

cikada it should have been left to the politicians in the first place and never have been put to such an ill concieved and badly organised referendum

daphnedill - I am afraid that I am not quite sure what it is that you are trying to say.

Ah well! C'est la vie! You probably wouldn't understand anyway.

Daphnedil why do you think that Luckygirl would not understand you? Is it because your thought processes are incomprehensible except to yourself?

Yes, I was quoting the article, alea, as anyone would know who'd read it rather than getting hysterical at the title (which is also cobbled from Libby Purves' own expressions in the article, as is fairly standard practice when recommending an article by someone else) and at the person who provided the link to the article.

That is certainly a view shared by quite a few, varian. Cameron's handling of the his own party euro-sceptic agitators, of calling the referendum when he did and then of copping out of finishing the job when the vote went to Brexit (though I can also understand his saying that he is not the right man to do it) do make it look as though it could have been better 'stage managed'. But who knows, and anyway it's done. Now we're at the point where politicians should get down to work and sort things out while the rest of us yabber on and, in effect, wait and see what the fall out is.

Re racist attacks, yes they are as shocking as they always are, and as pointless.