Jalima- sometimes we've had friends for a very long time, since childhood- and the friendship survived despite life having taken us to very different places. We can agree to disagree on so many things- and it doesn't matter if they are rich or poor, surgeons or work at the local coop, woodcutters or University Professors, etc. Doesn't matter if they are gay, or transexual, or what religion they are, etc.
But when it comes to such matters as vile racism, and huge issues like child cruelty, animal cruelty, and voting for Trump, or Leave if the reasons were clearly expressed as racist - would be friendship breakers for me too.
I shall never see my lovely American cousins- whom we so enjoyed visiting and having here - as they suddenly came out with a raving attack on Obama and his wife- and then on about Trump beign the best politician ever- and all this racist bile came out (they are of course immigrants - she third generation Swiss and English- and he half Italian - and half Navaho (so at least part-native) - we'd got on so well till then- and we managed to be polite for the rest of their stay here- and exchanged a few e-mail - but we could never ever have them to stay again, and would never go back to be with them ... and we've visited them at all 3 of their houses, East Coast, AZ and Hawai) - sad indeed. Some things you can agree to disagree upon, discuss, debate- but others are beyond that. According to him, Obama is a Muslim Al-Quaïda spy- and Fox News is the only source for the Truth. How can you even begin to discuss this??? You can't.