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Are Gransnetters just vicious online trolls?

(279 Posts)
madamecholet Thu 14-Jul-16 14:11:19

Well, we are apparently a bunch of bullies on this site:

www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3689188/The-vicious-online-trolls-grannies-according-fellow-gran-crossed-unleashed-spite.html

Some poor innocent (who is media savvy enough to get an article published in a national newspaper) is in a state of shock after posting on Gransnet. A whole page in DM basically complaining that she posted on an internet forum and is shocked that not everyone found her as witty and amusing as she clearly thinks she is.

Shame on you grannies for upsetting the poor little flower! On the bright side though, she did manage to get her article published, so that was probably a nice little earner for her.grin

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 15-Jul-16 09:01:17

Agree obieone.

Jane10 Fri 15-Jul-16 09:07:46

Obieone a clique is only always negative in your opinion not mine.
jings re GN - sadly I think that's quite true! I think their lack of response to this thread is quite telling.

breeze Fri 15-Jul-16 09:07:53

Agree obieone but realistically, at times posts can seem cliquey because the posters have known each other a long time but they're not necessarily excluding. The same thing happens face to face. A group of friends chatting away while a newcomer feels a bit outside of the group to start with.

Nelliemoser Fri 15-Jul-16 09:13:20

PLEASE WILL SOMEONE tell me what the original post that generated all this fuss was about?
Please Pretty Please.
A woman spends a day on the garden and misses everything.

Mumsy Fri 15-Jul-16 09:15:46

jingles Im now confused ( doesnt take much lol) my posts are showing green in the background!?

Anya Fri 15-Jul-16 09:15:57

try this Nellie

breeze Fri 15-Jul-16 09:16:51

Click on the thread link and read the article Nelliemoser. An ex GN received 'short thrift' when she posted what she considered to be a clever and witty thread and other people didn't see it that way. So she went to the newspapers (allegedly, or maybe they approached her) and gave us all a good kicking.

Anya Fri 15-Jul-16 09:16:59

Mumsy hmm not happening here!

breeze Fri 15-Jul-16 09:20:12

Apologies Nellie, still half asleep. Thought you meant article.

Maybe you have green background selected for your normal background screen Mumsy.

pensionpat Fri 15-Jul-16 09:39:16

Anya. I found the original post by searching "Donna air"

pensionpat Fri 15-Jul-16 09:40:16

I remember reading the thread at the time. Not funny or clever or indeed interesting.

mumofmadboys Fri 15-Jul-16 09:54:13

Ditto pensionpat

breeze Fri 15-Jul-16 09:59:42

Seems the site directs the colours Mumsy so no idea why your posts are appearing in green. Usually just the GNHQ postings.

Jayh Fri 15-Jul-16 10:22:22

My own posts are also green if I log in. I thought it was to make them stand out to me but I am confused now.
I am just catching up with this thread. I remember the OP and thought it was a student prank. The responses were few compared to many other posts here and surely any professional writer must be able to stand up to criticism. Even JK Rowling.
Bullying? No evidence of that but then the poster is a writer of fiction after all.

LucyGransnet (GNHQ) Fri 15-Jul-16 10:37:34

Hi Mumsy...that's very strange, we can't see any green posts from this end! Your own posts should be highlighted to you, perhaps that's it? Could you report one that looks green to you? Thanks.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 15-Jul-16 10:41:31

mumsy just a thought. My son sees pale pink as green. He's colour blind!!!

You would know, wouldn't you?! shock

felice Fri 15-Jul-16 10:42:10

I just read this and the original post, a bit busy at the moment, 50 coming here for a supper meeting on Monday evening.
Just thought the blog was a bit silly, I did not really see the point of it what does it have to do with GN at all.
I am not a royalist but found the 'dialogue' a bit rude, after all a lot of commoners have married into the royal family over the years, not always very successfully.
Ok back to getting the terrace and garden suitable for a bunch of posh folk on Monday evening,,,, grovel grovel.

MiniMouse Fri 15-Jul-16 10:58:26

When I read the original puerile Uncle Jimmy post in February I thought it had been written by a friend of our Shoe Zone contributor!

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 15-Jul-16 11:06:43

Hmmm... Might have been a tinsy bit beyond her. grin

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 15-Jul-16 11:07:17

#wordsoftwosyllables

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 15-Jul-16 11:08:09

Oh yes. "a friend of". Possibly. smile

TriciaF Fri 15-Jul-16 11:12:33

Jings - what a nasty thing to do, no wonder you were upset. I hate this reporting behind your back system, which can lead to plotting in a group. Much better out in the open if you have something to say, then the person can reply.
And to think this pointless thread and the GN was talked about in the DM, the most poisonous vacuous rag of them all. It's shameful.

sunseeker Fri 15-Jul-16 11:36:54

I tried to post a comment on the DM site defending GN members - it's not been published (what a surprise)

Anya Fri 15-Jul-16 11:45:26

Indeed!

GrandmaMoira Fri 15-Jul-16 11:59:50

Apart from the trolls/bullies aspect of this story, from looking at the Daily Mail article what stands out to me is the stock photos of grandmothers who all look to be great-grandmother age. It's such a dated picture of the average Granny. The average of becoming a grandmother is 50 and the majority of posters here seem to be from 50s to 70s. Those photos showed women of 75 to 85. This is something which often happens and really annoys me.