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Nelliemoser Mon 01-Aug-16 19:28:44

Let Toys Be Toys - For Girls and Boys
6 hrs ·
www.facebook.com/lettoysbetoys/?fref=nf
See the link This is dreadful.

A promotional email from Gap has sparked Twitter controversy, with boys presented as future Einsteins, and girls presented as social butterflies concerned with what's "in" at the playground.

@PsychScientists sent us the photos which are still drawing comments, such as:

"This kind of sexism bothers me as a physicist, a scholar, a social butterfly, a female, and a mom of a girl." (@profWAHM)... See more
Let Toys Be Toys - For Girls and Boys's photo.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 12-Aug-16 09:44:10

"get a bloke to do it for you"

But you would miss so much!

#willdigthatbloodygardenmyself

Marmark1 Fri 12-Aug-16 08:26:30

Me too ladies,each to their own,but count me out,I'm very happy wiv me lattes and nattering,

petra Fri 12-Aug-16 08:24:16

You don't often post, IIrina but with that comment, you nailed it. That is exactly my experience of feminists.

GandTea Fri 12-Aug-16 08:13:31

Women brickies ? They are obviously rare enough to make the newspapers. I do know a lady plumber, her father runs the business.

"Get a bloke to do it", hmm are we being conned here ?

Where have all the male BBC news presenters gone, the only man to be seen was presenting the weather (Carols's weather was much netter though - less rain)

Synonymous Fri 12-Aug-16 01:21:44

I'm with you Ilrina as would be any sensible woman! grin

Ilrina Thu 11-Aug-16 23:39:50

well my take on being a feminist is...get a bloke to do it for you while you get on with doing what you want to wink

Elegran Thu 11-Aug-16 22:41:25

Don't see women brickies? www.telegraph.co.uk/women/womens-business/10320077/Meet-the-female-brickie-who-still-gets-her-nails-done-every-week.html

On the same page there are links to other articles about women in jobs traditionally done by men.

Marmark1 Thu 11-Aug-16 22:26:21

You don't see women brickies
Seriously I am so not a feminist,I love men, I love people,but I do honestly believe every one is equal,every one is different,with different capabilities and talents,but most of us can offer something.the person cleaning the streets is just as important as the brain surgeon.one person may offer the physical strength,another the brains,( not me,I don't have either) another may be a good organiser (that's me)it doesn't matter which gender does which,so long as they're capable and happy doing it.
For goodness sake,get a life some of you,if your little girl likes pink (like mine) dont mean they can't be an astronaut,they change so much.I remember my big strong nephew,when he was small,he used to tell everyone about his baby sister.He didn't have one,it was a doll he used to play with.

JessM Thu 11-Aug-16 21:20:56

Looking at the size of tractors these days, I expect they call in a specialist contractor. Did anyone else see the programme that showed the NZ farmer mustering her vast flock of merits in the high mountains?
There are of course very few jobs these days that require extreme physical strength that some men are able to supply.

GandTea Thu 11-Aug-16 21:07:07

Typo - can compete, not, can not, oops.

GandTea Thu 11-Aug-16 21:05:58

G&T on our second date. xxx

GandTea Thu 11-Aug-16 21:05:11

Farming is am area where women can not compete better as it becomes more mechanised, anyone can drive modern farm machinery, it does not need the physical strength it once needed. But you might still need a man to change a wheel on your big John Deer tractor.

Jalima Thu 11-Aug-16 20:53:03

A tissue? Is that the best you can offer?
I expect a G&T at the very least (double please, slice no ice).
smile

I do love to see the children showing off their animals at the County show!

JessM Thu 11-Aug-16 20:50:10

I was at an agricultural show yesterday. Kids, some quite small, helping to show the animals. The girls were not dressed in frills. (I'll try to add a photo or two...) You might enjoy the one of the little boy who looked about 4 combing the cows. Kids were just working.
Another little vignette - best in show Hereford bull getting titivated with sprays and combs before the final trip to the show ring. One big burly rural looking chap in attendance. The other guy working on the full-body coiffure was slight, extremely dapper, very sharp hair cut. Did the bull have his own hairdresser or was this chap the member of a farming family who had chosen a different career path but brought his hairdressing expertise into play on show days?

GandTea Thu 11-Aug-16 20:44:33

Being respectful of the weaker sex, I apologise for apparently shouting (It wasn't meant as a shout) Have one of my tissues.

This is also tongue in cheek btw smile (not the apology)

LumpySpacedPrincess Thu 11-Aug-16 20:41:31

<passes Jalima smelling salts>

Jalima Thu 11-Aug-16 20:38:28

don't shout, G&Tea I may cry
(my female hormones taking over)

GandTea Thu 11-Aug-16 20:36:50

Jalima, FGS, read what I say. I am very aware there are many aspects to engineering. I chose the one I know most about and it is an area that women do NOT want to enter but men enjoy, so equality of numbers is unlikely. Men tend to be less concerned about minor physical disfigurement cause by their jobs, take a look at a brick layers hands for instance.

Men also generally have the ability to be physically stronger than women, that will also dictate jobs.

Jalima Thu 11-Aug-16 20:36:19

sorry:
twitter.com/estwebber/status/762561181575966720/photo/1?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw

#fluffbrain

Jalima Thu 11-Aug-16 20:35:43

Do you mean like this bit of sparkly stuff?
(I mean on his face, not him)
[[https://twitter.com/estwebber/status/762561181575966720/photo/1?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw00

LumpySpacedPrincess Thu 11-Aug-16 20:30:50

Oh but JessM Y'knows how are fluffy ladybrains make us love the pink and sparkly stuff. wink

Jalima Thu 11-Aug-16 20:25:16

that wasn't a reply to JessM btw, it was a x post.

Jalima Thu 11-Aug-16 20:24:19

I think that in families where there is more than one child and they are of different sexes there is an opportunity to play with what is termed 'gender-appropriate' toys (not my term btw).
However, in families with same-sex siblings or with one child, it is not so easy.

I like Maggie (she talks a bit fast, I have to concentrate to keep up) but what she has to say is always interesting and enjoyable.

JessM Thu 11-Aug-16 20:22:18

Interesting amounts of "anti-feminist" venom on this thread. Would any of you like to explain what your problem is with wanting children not to be categorised from an early age?

LumpySpacedPrincess Thu 11-Aug-16 20:21:42

Sadly jingl children are often stopped from playing with toys assigned to the opposite sex, I work with 5 year olds and I often see dads react in disgust if their boys play with inferior, female toys. Gender stereotyping is very real and it has a very real effect on girls and women. It is not fair to dismiss something which is so harmful. Nellie she is indeed magnificent and puts much of her time into fighting stereotypes. There was a horrible article in the daily hate that she was only given the job because she was a black woman, not because she is a hugely talented scientist. Women like her are part of the solution!