This reminds me of a time many years ago before my ex-husband left, he was always involved in local affairs ?, running committees, coach of football team, PTA, etc. Always out 7 nights a week whilst little socialist wifey, looked after children, home, worked full time, (you know, the stuff that goes unnoticed!) Then a number of locals asked him to become a local councillor, I did all the leafleting, phone calls, arranged meetings.....blah blah! He then came home one night and said.... " oh by the way, I was asked what my politics were, who was I aligneed to? What shall I tell them? What am I? Not wishing to pigeonhole him or label him etc. I asked him what he believed in, what philosophy, aspirations, or hopes he had for his community and the greater populace? What difference would he make by helping his community?
Ha! He said " I haven't got a clue what you're talking about" !! I rest my case....how did I manage to marry such an idiot? He was only doing all these 'good deeds' to become well known and attract women! Say no more! 