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morethan2 Wed 01-Feb-17 22:45:21

I occasionally drop in on the political threads. Just a quick look. Today I noted that there was a query of sorts saying that some of us regular uses never comment or join in the debate. I just wondered why? I know why I don't. Apart from the fact that I'm having a particularly difficult time dealing with family illness the reasons are.
1 the threads are far too long so I have difficulty keeping up
2 the posters seem so clever and politically acute that I don't feel I have enough knowledge.
3 I haven't got the time to check my facts so am reluctant to just express my feelings
4 the posters can be very robust if they don't agree with each other.
5 perhaps I'm a bit wimpish and can't take the backlash if I disagree with a post.
Maybe I'm a bit delicate. How do others feel?

Jalima Sun 05-Feb-17 23:18:47

wink
it was a snip from a comedy programme I think GG

GracesGranMK2 Sun 05-Feb-17 23:17:50

What are you talking about Annie?

Jalima Sun 05-Feb-17 23:15:30

I'm surrounded by wodges of papers here, most of it rubbish that needs sorting, I could be your minder. We have a glass door somewhere too.

Anniebach Sun 05-Feb-17 23:10:56

smile. Seems thst was only my,opinion even thought it was shown on countless tv programmes

Jalima Sun 05-Feb-17 22:50:39

Your hassling me, where's the glass door for me to hide behind
I get it grin
You have to have a minder, though, with a bit wodge of papers

is it wodge?
not wadge pronounced wodge?

Anya Sun 05-Feb-17 22:46:04

Not a put-down at all Rinouchka - I think it's clear that Rigby was drawing a very valid comparison between something trivial where a 'wait & see' policy is acceptable and something so serious that it is potentially Extremely Dangerous.

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Rinouchka Sun 05-Feb-17 21:17:39

I am not having a whinge, just surprised that you should not bother to take the total of what a poster says and resort to sweeping rhetoric .

I agree with your stance, but not with your manner.
You will find that I have never posted about cheesecake...another cheap putdown.

Anniebach Sun 05-Feb-17 21:15:07

Gracesgran, you have had your few seconds of hiding your clawing behind the pretence of humour, didn't work.,now excuse me but there posts by intelligent and fair minded posters I want to read and perhaps discuss.

Rigby46 Sun 05-Feb-17 21:00:39

She means me - why not say so? We are having a debate about the meaning of 'wait and seeism' I don't know why you had to run away to another thread to have another winge- We have different interpretations of that as a strategy and given that DT is a clear and present danger to the world, it's not surprising is it that passions run high. We are hardly debating the merits of recipes for cheesecake. I do not understand at all what there is to wait and see about DT and what he'll do next - he's a monster, democratically elected or not.

Rinouchka Sun 05-Feb-17 20:53:21

On the Trump Presidency thread, I have just had an example of another poster making a sweeping judgement to belittle or demean another, namely me this time.

Some posters allow rhetoric to take over. Whilst I admire passion to a cause, I find sweeping stances objectionable, especially when unmerited.

Sorry but thought I should state this here!!

GracesGranMK2 Sun 05-Feb-17 20:52:30

I have no idea what you are trying to say Annie; it makes no sense I'm afraid. I appreciate though, that we should not tease those who don't want to be teased.

Anniebach Sun 05-Feb-17 20:03:00

Your hassling me, where's the glass door for me to hide behind grin

Anniebach Sun 05-Feb-17 20:01:22

I get it, silly me, digs the claws in then say - it was a joke , mmmmmmm , also seems to be problems with courage

rosesarered Sun 05-Feb-17 19:58:51

More like violent leg pulling ( if not dismemberment)! grin

Ana Sun 05-Feb-17 19:56:03

'Gentle leg-pulling' is certainly not what goes on on some of the political threads!

anniegold195 Sun 05-Feb-17 19:55:52

I agree with all your reasons. I cant help getting upset if somebody criticises me. I'm not a softy but maybe a whimp (wink)

petra Sun 05-Feb-17 19:53:52

And 'some' politicians run away from reporters claiming they're being bullied grin
What's not to criticise.

GracesGranMK2 Sun 05-Feb-17 19:52:40

It was a little gentle leg-pulling (there was a wink) that got taken far, far too seriously. Sadly that sort of sums up what happens on political threads.

Anniebach Sun 05-Feb-17 19:38:31

Well some politicians, like the one who sat on the floor of a train and claimed there were no seats , next day change of story, there were not enough seats for a group to sit together

Jalima Sun 05-Feb-17 19:34:40

Honesty is the best policy

better tell the politicians that one!

Anniebach Sun 05-Feb-17 19:34:06

the decent and honest thing to do is to name the poster, some don't do honesty though, they do snide

petra Sun 05-Feb-17 19:16:11

I think we can all work out to whom Gracesgran is referring to grin Is she bovvered, I don't think so, it's the truth.

GracesGranMK2 Sun 05-Feb-17 19:11:35

Well they are putting their own point of view. Honesty really doesn't come into it.

Anniebach Sun 05-Feb-17 18:59:10

Someone criticising the leader of their own party? Surely not .

But thinking of it , whoever you are referring to is being honest

GracesGranMK2 Sun 05-Feb-17 18:44:26

I am afraid they will have to 'get over themselves' as so may leavers have told others to do. Nothing, not even a thread of this length, will alter the ways people discuss politics. One member really can't tell another what to do. You might be able to influence people if you actually knew one another but on a forum - not a chance. There are even people on politics threads who bad mouth the leader of their own party - can it get worse than that - it's bound to upset someone on here wink