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Charlie Gard

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Teetime Sat 29-Jul-17 13:15:53

I do agree. sad

Smileless2012 Sat 29-Jul-17 12:41:37

Yes rest in Peace Charlie and let us all hope there can be some peace for his parents too.

farview Sat 29-Jul-17 11:24:36

Rest in Peace little star..little Charlie ✨✨✨

yggdrasil Thu 27-Jul-17 07:24:51

I didn't see the other one. I posted this because of how I felt yesterday.

Smileless2012 Wed 26-Jul-17 19:24:03

Thanks devongirl

BlueBelle Wed 26-Jul-17 18:16:18

I was wondering why there are two threads entitled Charlie Gard the other thread has over 300 posts on it No point in two can't you ask admin to incorporate this with other

MaizieD Wed 26-Jul-17 18:10:16

I couldn't help feeling that the parents should have been allowed to take the child to the US. I suspect that they might always have a nagging 'it might have worked' feeling haunting them.

I'm not saying this because I think it 'might have worked' because I don't for one moment think it would. But they were prepared to go to enormous lengths to keep their child alive where other parents might have just said 'let him go'. I think that not being able to try a last resort treatment might well affect them for a long time because of that.

devongirl Wed 26-Jul-17 18:08:17

If you do search on Gard, you'll find it smileless, it's on the forums if you click on 'last hour'.

Smileless2012 Wed 26-Jul-17 18:02:12

Where is the other thread Charleygirl? This is the only one I've seen.

Smileless2012 Wed 26-Jul-17 17:52:55

It is a heartbreaking story and I too have felt torn because of recent events.

It was so sad to hear the statement from Charlie's father the other day, we cannot imagine the pain he and Charlie's mother have gone through, but wrong of him to say if Charlie had received the proper treatment earlier, he would have been a normal healthy child. The poor little mite suffered irreversible brain damage when he had his first seizures.

Putting to one side the cost in terms of finance and specialist careers and how may other children could have benefited from those resources, it is time to let him go.

Easy for me to say I know but I'm as sure as I can be that if he were mine I'd have already made that decision. That said, my heart goes out to them at this terrible time.

Charleygirl Wed 26-Jul-17 17:49:02

Why start yet another post on this subject?

yggdrasil Wed 26-Jul-17 17:42:34

I have had sympathy for these parents up till now, but I am rapidly losing it. They have a child who has no brain function and has been on life support for months. They have encouraged public sentiment to an exceptional extent, and got involved with an American doctor who just wanted a human laboratory subject.
GOSH has given all care, and has been forced to spend money on one court case after another.
They have now agreed that there is no hope for Charlie, but are still stringing it out wanting at least a week in the hospice before the life support is switched off.
How many children who could have benefitted have lost out because that life support system and support team were all given to Charlie?
Surely most parents would have accepted the fact the child couldn't live; grieved, and then gone on to have a healthy family.