That depends, of course.
Paying for your own care would give you more choice; however, paying well over £1,000 per week from your assets to subsidise others whose care is being paid by the LA at a lower rate is another form of taxation.
Presumably if your friend's income has been and is low she would not have to pay the 'care tax' suggested whereas those with more income would pay on an incremental scale.
Not everyone would need to take advantage of the 'care tax' they have paid in so that would subsidise others who did need it and that seems eminently sensible to me.
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