I can only speak for myself Nigglynellie.
I do absolutely get it that you and a majority of British voters feel like that about the EU. And you are getting your way, are you not? It's democracy, right or wrong.
However, in most democracies you get the chance to change or moderate things after a few years if you discover that the original decision was wrong for you, or matters come to light which lead you to become impoverished or to feel unsafe.
As an example, I voted Lib Dem in a general election only to find the politicians I had hoped would be the voice of reason -- and the most socially-proactive -- sold out for a deputy's badge for their leader and then propped up the Conservatives, enabling them to bring in all sorts of harsh policies and to privatise Royal Mail.
The least well-off Scots I know -- bright young people from struggling families, older women on low and uncertain incomes, sick/disabled people who needed a spare room for wheelchairs/hoists etc -- have benefitted from nationalist policies which take a more humanitarian approach north of the border.
I'm not keen on the centralisation of emergency services (especially for rural areas), the Named Person scheme or the minimum pricing scheme for alcohol as it currently stands.
Like all governments, the SNP/Greens bloc have made mistakes and are very reluctant to admit these in the current climate of uncertainty, but at least they give it a go. They may need a term out of power to get their act together, but the proportional representation system in Scotland ensures that a much more diverse range of views can be elected.
Scotland, overall, has benefitted from being a member of the EU, except in terms of fishing rights and these should be the one certainty of Brexit.... but who knows? Not even the Tories, I suspect.
All Scottish nationalists are not necessarily SNP supporters, but many of us are in dismay at the constant bashing of that party, even when it gets on with the day job and sticks to its principles.
A couple of national tabloids are particularly frightening in their intolerant attitude to anyone who suggests there may be downsides to Brexit. The demonisation of senior politicians, peacemakers, judges and businesspeople has been lamentable.
In contrast, I hope GN remains a place where we can discuss and disagree on our futures, ask questions and share information without lumping everyone together on one side or the other.