Gerispringer Thu 31-May-18 20:22:22
"Ally, ally ally, Your narrow, parochial and patronising view of the world indicates you know nothing about the real lives of others."
Narrow, parochial and patronising wow! Well let's take a look at what those big words really mean. Narrow, definitely not my knowledge of the world my experience of life, just thinking it through...no definitely not narrow. Parochial now that means what, clearly meant as an insult:
parochial
adjective
1.
relating to a Church parish.
"the parochial church council"
Definitely can’t be no 1, I am not on the parish council and I don’t attend Church, well only weddings, funerals and baptisms. So you must be meaning no 2.
2.
having a limited or narrow outlook or scope.
"parochial attitudes"
synonyms:narrow-minded, small-minded, provincial, insular, narrow, small-town, inward-looking, limited, restricted, localist, conservative, conventional, short-sighted, petty, close-minded, blinkered, myopic, introverted, illiberal, hidebound, intolerant.
Now the only couple of these that I can see might be seen as an insult from you who lives and thinks in the “London Bubble”, would be provincial, small-town, illiberal maybe oh you would definitely want intolerant in there. None of the other fit.
What arrogance and snobbery to assume that small town and provincial, meaning part of a parish would be an insult. I am tolerant and I should add patient to a fault, as you know from how I put up with you when you talk ????.
books.google.com/ngrams/graph?year_start=1800&year_end=2008&corpus=15&smoothing=7&case_insensitive=on&content=parochial
That, leaves patronising. Now what does that really mean in this context:
Antonyms for patronizing
•humble
•unconceited
Roget's 21st Century Thesaurus, Third Edition Copyright © 2013 by the Philip Lief Group.
I am sure you meant these, humble and unconceited. On these I have to agree with you I humbly admit you are correct, I am indeed humble and unconceited.
Now my view of the world, well, it is certainly not one of the “London Bubble”. I have to readily agree on that. I recall from living in a large city at one time when I was much younger, as I suspect you are, is insular, inward looking and cosmopolitan giving the illusion that one is at the centre of things, outward looking, trendy and hot. Clearly your view of what is parochial is viewed from the lofty heights of superiority and snobbery, that somehow, parochial (being of the Parish) is backwoods, and backwards, it isn’t, real people, working people, hard working people, who have brought up families, contributed to the economy, held down responsible jobs and made a good life from in my case a poor background. How much would I have put on that being your view. Small town when used as an insult is well, patronising as a synonym:
arrogant
pretentious
snobbish
Now let me give you an insight into my view of the world. The world I live in is caring, supportive, neighbourly, happy, sad, hard sometimes, interesting, expansive, enlightening and full of optimism for the future. It is enriching and enriched by other with love, kindness and trust. It is socially self supporting, it takes responsibility for itself, it get’s on with life, it looks after others without expectation of return. It believes in democracy, truth, it believes in punishing the bad and rewarding the good. It believes in helping other if they are prepared to help themselves. It believes in "give a person a fish they eat for a day give them a fishing rod they eat for life".
I believe that no one give you anything, you have to work for it. I believe that when people are genuinely on their a___e society will help. I believe even after a life time, in the basic good in people, but aware that there are people who are uscrupulous, liars and cheats, who manipulate the truth for their own ends. I know that the world is not perfect but I still keep hoping and engaging and influencing. I know that capitalism is not an ideal system but I also know that anything else that takes away peoples freedom to speak, suppresses the right’s of one to support the right’s of another is equally wrong. I believe in equality, fraternity and justice under the law, it might not be perfect, but the alternative is anarchy. I believe in respect for oneself and in the dignity of education and work. I believe in every persons right to live their lives in peace, harmony without fear. I believe in democracy and standing up to bullies.
Now what’s your world view inside your bubble!