Lemon, that's exactly how I feel! I am glad that something has been agreed at least at cabinet level that hopefully can be built on elsewhere. Obviously there has to be a compromise and as you say, no one on here has suggested a hard brexit, in fact we have said umpteen times our reasons for wishing to leave and we cannot be expected to keep repeating or explaining ourselves particularly to those who clearly don't want to listen.
I do take exception to being likened to a little Englander, and (we won the war!) Well, there are those on here who will know that sneery comments of this nature are for me the proverbial red rag! The War is my Achilles heel, and I tend to be over sensitive so if I over reacted then I apologise. However that does not mean that I hate Europeans, (Germans?!!) in fact quite the opposite. I was brought up in a spirit of peace and reconciliation, culminating in the visits to and from Germany in the late 1950's/early 60's with some wonderful friends, all of whom had had a pretty dreadful war one way or the other - we weren't the only ones!
I dislike and distrust the EU, not Europe or its people!