To be honest, I'm pretty disgusted by some of the remarks on here.
The phrase "playing the race card" is often used when non-white people stand up to discriminatory behaviour and practices. And it cannot be denied that racial prejudice and discrimination - whether conscious or unconscious - are very much present in all areas of public life. Statistical analysis and undercover research has shown quite clearly that non-white people have unequal access to employment, housing, justice, education, etc, etc.
A poster stated "racism won't be beaten until the resentment of the past is forgotten". I would turn that statement around and say "Resentment of past and present treatment will not be eliminated until racism is beaten".
It was also stated: "Most people have moved on from the days of colonialism". Tell that to the Chagossians who were forcibly removed from their homes - and are still dispossesed several decades later - or to the black South Africans who suffered under apartheid and who still see wealth and land overwhelmingly in the hands of white South Africans. Non-white people throughout the world can see what has happened and what continues to happen. It is not so easy for them to "move on" from the subject of colonialism.
POGS The scenario you set - a black man (or woman) holding a white child in a world where white people are, in the main, seriously disadvantaged as compared to black people and where black people provide them with aid - with strings attached - does not exist. There is no example of, for instance, a European, predominantly white, country being occupied and taken over by black people in order to strip that country of its resources and subjugate its people.
Non-white people were said to be intellectually, emotionally, culturally and morally inferior to white people. It provided a convenient reason for seizing power and stealing natural resources and the cheap labour of millions of people. In my view, the issue is about power and who holds and inherits that power, rather than race but race provided a useful tool to divide and rule.
Some of these colonialist-type views still exist - I believe Gabriella's comments clearly demonstrate this:
"Why certain countries, such as those in the continent of Africa, need to be taught how to look after and work together with their fellow countrymen and women, heaven knows. Surely it's an inherent trait that even animals have. If they need teaching the basics, there is no hope.".
It has also been reported on here that Lammy's comments have caused donors to state they will no longer support Comic Relief because of the "ingratitude" shown by his remarks. So, it appears that because a black person - Lammy - had the temerity to voice his opinions on an issue which he felt needed addressing and which he felt strongly about, people decide that black people should be punished. This smacks very much of the days of black slavery when, if one slave became "uppity" all the black workers were punished to teach them who was boss.
As far as I am aware, Lammy didn't accuse Dooley or anyone else of being racist - he objected to the image of Africa and African people being presented on programmes such as Comic Relief. It is he who has been described as "racist".
I can understand why Dooley was hurt by his remarks since they were aimed at her personally- and I initially felt rather sorry for her. I think it would have been better if he had spoken about the subject in more general terms. However, I think her response is likely to encourage even more bad feeling and, to my mind, calls into question whether it was her commitment to helping people in Africa which caused her to take part or her wish to remain in the public eye. I would have admired her if she had expressed her hurt and asked Lammy to discuss the matter with her, rather than ramp up the bad feeling.