To Trisher Baggs and Gonegirl I am truly shocked to the core that you could defend a racist arxxhoxx and see nothing wrong with your views I truly cannot believe what world your heads are in, in 2019 and I am completely lost for words
I can't speak for the others but could you cite where I defended (your word) a racist, please, Bluebelle?
My saying that comparing human babies to other primate babies is not racist when it's not used in a racist way (I gave examples) is not a defence of anything except that kind of comparison, in which, obviously, I see no harm as I compared my own baby to other ape babies. My point is that we are apes too.
You and one other poster also asked me in your shocked and horrified voices where I have been all my life not to know that certain tropes are "common forms" of racist abuse. My answer is: not among people who use racist tropes. I still don't really get the banana one—well, I get that it's used as an insult; I just don't get why. Because white people eat bananas too.