Well Bridgeit, I don't know any of you so the caring bit is very minimal.
I care about people in RL, not those I've never met and never spoken to.
I care about family and friends and the causes I support because I know those people.
Naturally, my caring extends to people who perhaps have an accident or haven't got enough train fare but IMV, if I care for me and mine then I'm not relying on anyone else to do it for me.
I care about myself because I have AC, GC and GGC and I want to be the mum they love.
My own opinions, views and morals make me the person I am which is why, in RL, I am well liked because I don't change my mind just to fit in with other views or be part of the crowd. Being honest without dressing it up is part of my character although I don't go out of my way to be rude.
I have never ever fallen out with anyone, nor the reverse.
A clique on GN crow over silly stuff such as not getting the response they want or asking questions knowing full well that they are never going to agree despite pretending to be open-minded. They want people to hand over the bullets for them to fire back.
As for the spelling scenario,
surely fewer than 50% have dyslexia RA or some other issue.
I have no such excuse as to why I get irritated by poor spelling.
According to certain people I don't shop in the right places, I'm a 'complacent Tory', 'smug Little Englander', have an 'I'm alright Jack' attitude.
It's a sad state of affairs when I can't have my own views, even if they clash horribly with yours, without some of the same people piling in...' 'Oh! Isn't she terrible, judgemental, uncaring, ignorant, racist, mad, rude, from the slums of Liverpool...oh yes and much more.
Your views (and those of many on GN) you're entitled to I agree, not that that makes them valid.
I'd heard that mumsnet was bitchy but I think that GN isn't far behind if that's true.
Just because you shout loudly and all at once, it doesn't mean that your thoughts are more important or take precedence.
You will carry on being you and I will carry on being me.
I have no axe to grind but you obviously have because I'm not malleable and don't conform to the ideals of the clique.
That's life.
My apologies to the OP for the rutted track down which this thread has lurched...because of 3 short words.
I did not walk the track alone.