I accept, in fact agree, that living in a warm sunny climate is probably easier in many ways than living in the damp, grey north (I'm over the pennines gillybob, former cotton land so very damp)
I still maintain we have a cultural difficulty. I was in Greece a few weeks ago, a very poor area where the beach was full of local families after 5 or at the weekend. Big contrast with my visit to Lytham this weekend. In Greece I didn't see large family groups with boxes of beer, bottles of spirits/wine as I did at Lytham. In Greece there were bottles of water, orange juice and picnics. In Lytham I saw several large groups, all well supplied with plenty of alcohol. The adults were easy with foul language and the children left to their own devices, ignored. No dads playing ball games or running into the sea with their children.
I'm sorry to be so grumbling. Its partly cultural, the use of drugs and misuse of alcohol has become increasingly acceptable in our society. We have two or three generations of substance misusers in some families now. Toddlers growing up with heavy cannabis smoking and drinking every day, not to mention heroin/speed/ecstacy etc etc being used openly by adults. We used to have smokers being given their first fags by parents at age 13, now we have more serious addictive substances in regular use in some families. It's the norm for some children, no wonder they go on to use.