"As a Remainer you'd probably like there to be chaos, anarchy and people running amok because of Brexit, but it isn't happening. " Again, it seems that Leavers are deluded into thinking that Remainers actually like chaos! Paranoia!
No, as a remainer, if the withdrawal from Europe is what the rest of the country, after due consideration of the facts and data and the real welfare of their fellow-citizens, genuinely and logically want, then I would have accepted it, but would have liked it to take place -
1) . . with truth, honesty and decency in the campaigning for the vote, not with lies instead of truth, emotion clouding issues of national and social importance, machismo and personalities obscuring argument, and expert opinions based on experience, data and FACTS dismissed as propaganda while media hype and invented stories were elevated above them.
2) . . with the discussions and negotiations undertaken in an orderly and dignified way, not used for party shenanigans and personal empire-building purposes.
3) . . with careful preparation for the massive changes that will happen as a result of a complete turn-around in the direction of the nation's future, not as a series of ad hoc sudden whims and volte-faces.
How members of Parliament conduct themselves, individually and collectively, is both an example to the rest of the country of how Englishmen of the ruling classes - gentlemen - should behave and a mirror of how the electorate choose their representatives. The values and tastes of those who elected the particular lot in Westminster at the moment - of all parties, because a majority of sensible honest men/women would have voted with their consciences - are demonstrated by the MPs they voted in.