Welcome DidoLaMents and congratulations on being brave enough to dive in with a nice contentious subject! Love your name. Democracy means different things to different people, depending upon whether they are on the 'winning' side. This debacle of a referendum is an example of how democracry should not be conducted, it was poorly explained, poorly planned, hijacked by interest groups and its main purpose as far as I can understand it, was to finally calm the restless group of Tory MPs which became the ERG, but have been bubbling under since pre-Maastricht. This referendum was not to allow the electorate to decide whether they would like to remain in or leave the EU, it was to quell internal Tory party problems, and as a plan, it blew up in Cameron's face. There are some who voted to leave I am sure, with genuine researched views and made their decision accordingly, but too many were manipulated, believed the fake promises, refuse to listen now to anyone who doesn't back up their misguided vote and are now increasingly defensive as they realise they have been had. So, democratic it isn't, and having an unelected Rasputin in No10 flies in the face of 'taking back control'.