Opal, you have no compassion or understanding of the problem, its a case of tar every one with the same brush.
I was a single mother bringing up 2 children and not through any fault of mine. Husband just we off with a younger model. I struggled believe me I struggled but I had one thing in my favour I did not come from a deprived family and knew how to cook, budget an sew.
If you are not taught family skills and know what normal family life is like how can you pass on skills to bring up a family. As for the odd tattoo, cigarette etc. its a luxury they can't afford but what other luxuries do they have, no holidays or loads of new clothes. You need some luxuries in life, however small.
Also I have worked in a food bank, giving basic cookery lessons and these classes were well attended and appreciated but it should be at least taught in school.
Yes the state should help those in need for whatever reason and I don't object to any of my tax going on it. After all a single person receives £76 a week to live on whilst MP's can claim for meals and living expenses totalling hundreds per week. I know where I would prefer my money to go.