Occasionally words fail me at the breathtaking ignorance of some people! I use the word ignorance not in a pejorative sense, but in amazement that people can be so unknowing of the wider context of many other people’s lives. There are people, many people, who live lives of desperation that are not of their own making. I could very easily have been one of them, but for sheer luck.
Yes, I have worked hard, but then so has my older brother, yet our paths in life diverged when he became epileptic and I did not. His (old fashioned) medication dulled his brain and left him learning disabled; nevertheless he worked as a gardener on basic pay. Our lives diverged further when he became unable to work due to having a crumbling spine. His disability is due to no fault of his own and yet without a huge amount of support from his family he could easily have ended up homeless.
In addition to his spinal problem he currently has a brain tumour, recently had a heart attack, has diabetes - and yet still has to go for medical assessments to see if he’s entitled to PIP payments (used to be DLA). My brother doesn’t smoke, but he goes to the pub once a week for a pint and to play darts (he’s in a team). It’s not a secret that he’s on Benefits so I would not be surprised if people make assumptions about his lack of an obvious disability and decry the fact that he can ‘afford’ to drink.