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Phillip Scofield Why all the Fuss

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glammanana Fri 07-Feb-20 12:14:44

Why is his private life so important to everyone he is a lovely man and shouldn't have to explain himself to the media if he was the man next door would anyone be bothered I doubt it.

timetogo2016 Fri 07-Feb-20 14:46:34

I think his wife has known for years and his daughters.
I thought he was gay years ago when he was doing Saturday morning tv.
I like him and that won`t change but I hope he doesn`t start being camp all of a sudden.
I wish him and the family all the best for the future.

ananimous Fri 07-Feb-20 14:43:20

I'm just glad for his families sake that he is no longer living a lie.

hulahoop Fri 07-Feb-20 14:41:49

I agree with you terribull can't stand all this luvy stuff and ho w brave they want to live in real world .

suziewoozie Fri 07-Feb-20 14:39:26

I could never bear to watch programmes like that - so superficial, false and full of that sort of self importance that celeb status seems to engender in so many of them Seriously why do so many people watch programmes of that ilk? I’ve seen clips and that was enough. One bete noire of mine are stories about celebs ‘brush with cancer/ death etc’ when it’s nothing of the kind. I see the headlines in those awful magazines when I’m queuing at the checkout

suziewoozie Fri 07-Feb-20 14:31:34

Smiley do you really think the first his family heard of it was on live TV? Really ? Don’t be so daft

TerriBull Fri 07-Feb-20 14:30:44

My outburst is probably due to the fact that I saw the film 1917 last night, I was moved by it and it's very fresh in my mind, whilst a dramatisation of events, we all know what those men lived through. Not to mention bravery today for example "The White Helmets of Syria" just one example, there will be many more. I can't help contrasting it with this piece of non news shock

Philip Schofield is a tv personality who is paid a lot of money to sit on a sofa to front a lightweight tv show. Seeing on line Holly, Ruth and Eamon fawning all over PS and uttering drivel, to me is just the usual c'leb fatuous fodder that we've come to expect these days.

Smiley4 Fri 07-Feb-20 14:26:40

I feel for his wife, he describes how much he loves her, she’s his best friend, she’s an amazing women, incredible person. And in effect dumps her live on TV after 27 years!

He then says they are staying as a family unit. So why come out at all. If his wife knew and his daughters, why couldn’t he just continue to carry on as before. Instead he chose to do something on tv knowing how much it would hurt those he says he loves the most.
I don’t get it.

May7 Fri 07-Feb-20 14:23:16

GRANNYGRAVY13
Well said compassionate comment I cant add anymore to that statement really.flowers

lilypollen Fri 07-Feb-20 14:20:06

Feuds with Holly/Ruth, he BBC can't dump him now can they?

Anniebach Fri 07-Feb-20 14:17:24

Well said Terri

Greymar Fri 07-Feb-20 14:14:22

Well said Terri. What exactly is their contribution? Do they excel in sport, do they inovate and create, do they quietly and wisely go about improving the lives of other?

glammanana Fri 07-Feb-20 14:13:06

TerriBull such a good post I totally agree.

suziewoozie Fri 07-Feb-20 14:08:13

ananimous I agree that the phrase ‘stupid fool’ is hardly adequate. Adult men in positions of power should not be any sort of actual or potential sexual relationships with 16 year olds. I wouldn’t use your phrase but it is totally unacceptable and most people appear to be judging it so. Prince Andrew also comes to mind - yea I know she was 17 - but same basic principles.

TerriBull Fri 07-Feb-20 14:02:14

I can understand why he's taken ownership of the story but I for one find Holly Willoughby, even more nauseating than usual, if that's at all possible. Declaring that she's never been more proud of him. Everyone is dead proud of someone in the public eye for bugger all these days. Maybe they should take themselves off to see the film 1917, a dramatisation of the horrific events that young men were forced to live through, to understand "proud" like the word "devastated"
are both overused to describe anything slightly out of the ordinary or unexpected.

SalsaQueen Fri 07-Feb-20 14:01:32

I couldn't give a monkey's about whether he, or anyone else, is gay/straight/other. With all that's going off in the world, it's not news.

On reflection, he's always seemed quite effeminate though.

ananimous Fri 07-Feb-20 13:59:53

@paddyanne Derek (Mackay, 40something) was a stupid fool to txt a 16yr old

Try: filthy pervert.
I just can't understand those of you who minimise his grooming of a child.
Unbelievable - or maybe that is what some people view as their "normal".

Sick people targeting our youngsters.

suziewoozie Fri 07-Feb-20 13:56:40

I really don’t understand your post at all Oops

ananimous Fri 07-Feb-20 13:55:17

The arguing has started! ?

Hetty58 Fri 07-Feb-20 13:47:19

I always assumed that he was gay anyway. It seemed plain as day to me. I have no idea why he felt the need to announce it, though. How is it relevant to being a TV personality? Will we reach the stage where we all have to declare our sexuality?

paddyanne Fri 07-Feb-20 13:44:47

Not the same a Derek McKay at all .Derek was a stupid fool to txt the 16 year old and his resignation was needed . However why did his mother not take it to the police instead of the Sun ?Cant judge a whole party by an eegit...or there wouldn't be ANY parties in WM at all

crazyH Fri 07-Feb-20 13:42:40

Ninathenana - as I said earlier, he is doing this now just to deflect attention from the "alleged" bullying accusation, made by Ruth.

GrannyGravy13 Fri 07-Feb-20 13:36:33

I wish him and his whole family well. By making this statement he has taken control of his story.
If he was forced into doing so by the media it is appalling.

Marilla Fri 07-Feb-20 13:33:02

This will run and run. I predict a book about his life journey to be released for Christmas 2020 with a run of interviews on every chat show available.
These folks don’t live in the real world. They think we actually care. I am so tired of nothing but celebs and their life style being thrust upon us. It’s difficult to avoid, even when reading the Guardian!

Smileless2012 Fri 07-Feb-20 13:32:29

If someone was going to 'out' him he did the right thing IMO making a statement. Only his family know how long they've known but he must have told them before making a public declaration.

ninathenana Fri 07-Feb-20 13:32:00

Watching BBC 1 and said to DH why has he bothered to "come out" to the public after all these years. Nobody's business but his.