Oh dear Harry and Meghan

Meghan & Harry are no different than many other couples, we must all know someone whom we thought had perhaps made a love choice that may not stand the test of time.
It’s a human condition that we all share!❤️?

Greymar, some folks believe that they ‘owe ‘it to ‘us’ the general public.
To some it is a case of we pay for them so they must perform & conform .
Some also believe that because of this they are entitled to say, print, & comment in any way the wish about the RF , sometimes in a manner that many of us wouldn’t say about our worst enemies.

Davidhs you know what they say, ‘You can’t put an old head on young shoulders.’ Unfortunately Harry was desperate. He wanted to get married and have a family. None of his previous girlfriends had agreed to marry him. Then along came Meghan. And the rest is history, as they say.

Can I ask why is matters? Is anybodys life dininished in any way because they didn't see a picture of the baby?

Perhaps, just perhaps they are well out of it and Good Luck to them.

He must have learned much about the Duke of Windsor and the hurt caused.

“ . It is difficult to understand why H's allowed this to happen,“

The judgement of other men in the family has not been good over the years, H should have seen this coming.

When he gave his speech at a charity do to explain why they
were leaving, he referred to himself as ‘Diana’s Son’ , !

He has married his mother . He will keep talking of her because he will get awwwww’s, there will be interviews with the likes of Oprah.

He is Diana’s son and Megan’s husband.

Thank you maddyone. It is difficult to understand why H's allowed this to happen, we feel the same about our ES.

Smileless
I already knew much of your story, but reading it there, step by step, it does indeed look very much like a plan. You were treated terribly and whilst I know that people learn to live with estrangement, the hurt is there forever. I’m so sorry it still isn’t resolved.
Harry and Meghan appear to have followed exactly the same path. I find it very difficult to understand why Harry has allowed this to happen, why he has allowed Meghan to say his family is toxic. I guess the royal family will have to learn to live with the pain of estrangement exactly as other families have done.

Thank you everyone. I just wanted to show that the criticism M & H are receiving isn't simply a case of people gossiping about something they know nothing about.

What's happening to H and his family is happening to thousands of families in exactly the same way for exactly the same reasons.

Parents, grand parents and great grand parents find themselves estranged and no amount of money, no prestige or royal title will make that pain any less.

I think he will be ok, he seems comfortable with celebrities.

They made it obvious they wanted out, the treatment of the
public when their baby was born, a photograph of a toe,
Godparents kept secret, they shut out the British public who
welcomed her.

And what still bugs me - the announcement that there would be no announcement followed by an announcement in the stables at Windsor when the press were summoned to film
the announcement which wasn’t going to be announced!

And the visit to S.A. so much poverty and we heard how he
feared every time a camera clicked and no one has asked her
if she was ok. Well she is ok now.

He will be fine, he will talk about his problems and his DM and the Americans will love him for it and pay him to do it.
I’m sure it will all be the British Public and the RFs fault.

The goodbye sounds so false (and American).
I sincerely hope Harry will be ok in isolation in a foreign country without the support of the RF. Time will tell.

Their last words of wisdom:

As we all find the part we are to play in this global shift and changing of habits, we are focusing this new chapter to understand how we can best contribute.

While you may not see us here, the work continues.

Thank you to this community - for the support, the inspiration and the shared commitment to the good in the world. We look forward to reconnecting with you soon, You've been great!

Until then, please take good care of yourselves and of one another.

Harry and Meghan.

Basically I think that means, Now bugger off the lot of you and leave us to enjoy ourselves.

They have closed their ‘Sussex Royal’ site.

Running down their UK charity and planning a new charity in
America.

Neither of them has learnt anything from all the 'well founded' criticism, in my opinion, as it was reported they flew by yet another private jet in their move to LA. I don't know how they think many will take them seriously when they start begging for money for any charities they start to support when they are living the high life themselves, certainly not any related to climate change, with or without their shoes on!

Smileless, so sorry to read of your upsetting circumstances.

Again so sorry Smileless in the case of H&M I fear that’s what is happening.

So sorry to read that Smileless. How terribly painful for you.

So sorry, Smileless, that you are having to re live this.

Smileless yes sounds familiar,, I am so sorry x

Smileless2012 I'm so sorry for your situation and I'm sure it must be unnerving to see it being mirrored in a family in the public eye.

Yes Bridgeit we've been on the receiving end of unfair judgement from our ES's wife and eventually from our ES.

My blood has run cold watching this whole sorry saga unfold because I was watching M do to H and his family what our ES's wife did to him and to us.

One moment we were the family she'd never had, I was the mother she'd always wanted and the next, we were toxic, unkind and unaccepting.

It's irrelevant that this is our royal family, it's a family being torn apart by a manipulative and controlling woman who has spurned the very people who welcomed her. Not just H's family but the country as a whole.

M's behaviour has mirrored that of our ES's wife, even as far as walking own the 'aisle' on her own as we were the only ones at their wedding because at that time, she'd cut out her own parents.

It was only when she became pregnant that things started to change and within 8 months of our first GC being born, it was game over.

Sound familiar?

Bridgeit no one doesn’t have to behave like a person with
unpleasant characteristics to say a person has unpleasant
characteristics.

No!