"I forgive her absolutely for her go home English comment" Very magnanimous but it's not really up to you to forgive an insulting remark that isn't directed at you is it Maizie?
Alegrias, I don't know if you are new, but you present a reasoned argument without resorting to anti English rhetoric. With that in mind, I'm going to put my hands up and say I made a comment on the other thread about the Scottish MP, which some deemed offensive, it was a knee jerk reaction to what I see on here as frequent assertions that bad things only go one way. I can see it was overly flippant about a serious subject and if I offended anyone I aplogise. I confess I had you in mind Paddyanne, because to me and many others here, in spite of you protesting otherwise, your posts continually point to a palpable dislike of the English. This came across loud and clear when you started a thread a while ago apropos of a horrible attack on two gay women in London, with a "what on earth's going on down south" I'm afraid that stuck with me because it was skewed in such a way as to suggest that only vile things happen in England. I was glad to see some of your Scottish compatriots called you out on that at the time.
I can't speak for Sue Donim but living where I do I'm surrounded by people who come come from somewhere else other than England, one of them Scottish, what a horrible world it would be if whenever such a person were to refer to their parent country in a misty eyed way and were told "why don't you go back there then". My heritage is only half English, my family come from all over the place, what I do know from my father and his siblings, even back then, you can straddle two cultures. My first husband was also from overseas, and whilst he like many of my family had made their home in England, incomers often carry an ache in their heart for the place they came from, maybe it's just nostalgia. From my experience they didn't actually want to go back to that place, because nothing is ever the same as anyone remembers, but at the same time most never cast off those formative memories and such yearnings are often part of the human condition.
I can completely understand the quest for Scottish independence and as an English person, I can say for myself at least, it's not my argument so I try not to keep out of it. What does piss me off is all the wrongs of history parceled up and thrown at us by the most vociferous of Scottish nationalists as if we are each responsible for all the ills that have been levied at Scotland from centuries ago and expecting eternal mea culpas. As I understand it, Scotland was a separate country until Elizabeth 1st died childless so we got your King James V1 who became James 1st, I don't suppose the population of England were ever consulted about that, like with everything else, the population had no say in anything. He was a descendent of Henry V111's sister, Margaret Tudor so I imagine the closest connection and so the unification came about.