I am British and Scottish and I do not want to be told that I am a foriegner in my own country.
Exactly, Varian.
I'm not sure what you mean by being told you are a foreigner in your own country, but despite what some try to pretend, Scotland will always welcome the ones who want to be Scottish.
But I have no desire to be Scottish, Alegrias. I am British first, English second. If I were to become Scottish, whatever that means, I would then be of a different nationality from one of my children and I do not desire that, either. I already have an identity, as do they, and I don’t wish to change it.
Living in a country doesn’t necessarily make you of that country. I lived in Nigeria for five years. No way would I claim to be Nigerian. As my mother says, living in a barn doesn’t mean you’re a horse.