Historically, 'The Irish Question' has always been a difficult one. I despair when I see the scenes on the news but, being born and bred in NI and now living for over 50 years in England, it doesn't surprise me. Anyone from Ireland knows the Peace Agreement has always been wafer thin and both main communities watch one another like hawks for any sign of favouritism or perceived favouritism. It is a scab that is continually picked at.
For those of you interested in the setting up of the North, BBC Sounds are running a 'Year 21' radio programme for the 100th Year celebration which each week tells a different part of the story from all sides. Just type in 'Year 21' on the search on BBC and it comes up. It is not a heavy historical/political presentation, more memories of various events and various participants. A weekly programme, each one about 30 minutes and going, I think, through the entire year. I have discovered a lot I didn't know and it does help you to get a picture of the very difficult situation, historically, that NI presents.
Like Alexa I grew up in a Protestant household and have no problem with a United Ireland either in Europe (which I would prefer) or part of the Commonwealth. However, I won't be bombed into it or accept a one-sided agreement and therein lies the difficulty.