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suziewoozie Mon 12-Apr-21 10:52:14

I can hardly believe I’m going to post this but does anyone else find it hard to believe that Harry and Andrew who actually saw active service for Queen and country are to wear suits for the funeral rather than uniform? I understand why this decision has been made and I think it stinks quite frankly - designed to humlitate. I don’t know why they’re not wearing sackcloth and ashes actually - petty, vindictive, what a lovely family they are.

Callistemon Tue 13-Apr-21 12:39:32

Honestly, the press are scraping the bottom of the barrel.
Is that anything new, Alegrias?

Anyone getting enraged by what they see in the press needs to remember that; that have a large wooden spoon designed for barrel scraping.

Callistemon Tue 13-Apr-21 12:36:35

Elegran

As the D of E had a lot to do with the arrangements for his own funeral, I wonder whether he had any input on the uniform ruling? That would be an interesting slant on it.

I'm sure he did; he would probably have arranged it to the last detail.

Presumably, although only 30 mourners are allowed, there will be a self-distanced guard and I hope the RN will be represented.

3nanny6 Tue 13-Apr-21 12:08:52

To move away from Prince William and Prince Harry and the dress attire for the funeral, there is speculation that Princess Anne shall be wearing a military uniform on the day apparently as she is Head or trustee of one of the organizations and they say she has the right to wear the uniform.

Kamiso Tue 13-Apr-21 11:52:40

At leat this thread made me laugh. Suziewoosie accusing other of being vile and vindictive. Pot, kettle, black!

So eaten up with aggressive anger she can’t just withdraw and allow the family to grieve for a much loved elder.

Pathetic and rather sad.

Greyduster Tue 13-Apr-21 11:43:12

Effectively, if Prince Harry resigned his commission (it was his decision to leave the Army) he should therefore not Be allowed to wear his uniform “under any circumstances“.
Army Dress Regulation Part 2:
02.45. Regular Army Reserve of Officers (RARO), Retired Officers and Ex- officers.
a. It is to be noted that those who resigned their commissions are not authorised to wear uniform under any circumstances.

Alegrias1 Tue 13-Apr-21 11:37:37

Anniebach

The funeral coverage will be all about William and Harry, probably the following day we will see front pages showing
William and Harry walking behind their mothers coffin with
photographs of them walking behind their grandfather’s coffin.

Even their personal tributes to their grandfather have been
compared.

In a first Annie, I agree with you! smile.

Some elements of the media know how they can play up this (possibly invented) split between Harry and William and will take great pleasure in highlighting what they think people want to hear and see.

One paper this morning was trying to say that H was having a dig at the Queen by putting the Latin motto of the Marines at the end of his message about PP. The two of them shared some ceremonial post in the Marines I think. Honestly, the press are scraping the bottom of the barrel.

Elegran Tue 13-Apr-21 11:31:08

As the D of E had a lot to do with the arrangements for his own funeral, I wonder whether he had any input on the uniform ruling? That would be an interesting slant on it.

Anniebach Tue 13-Apr-21 11:27:51

The funeral coverage will be all about William and Harry, probably the following day we will see front pages showing
William and Harry walking behind their mothers coffin with
photographs of them walking behind their grandfather’s coffin.

Even their personal tributes to their grandfather have been
compared.

GrannyGravy13 Tue 13-Apr-21 11:09:10

On a news bulletin this morning it was said that the Princes William and Harry will be wearing identical suits as they walk behind the coffin of Prince Philip.

maddyone Tue 13-Apr-21 11:02:15

I agree with that dolphindaisy. It would be strange wouldn’t it?
My father had a blazer with his regimental badge on it which he wore sometimes. He looked lovely in it. He still had his beret but he didn’t wear it.

dolphindaisy Tue 13-Apr-21 10:44:32

I only hope Edward doesn't appear in full uniform with a chest full of medals, as everyone knows, he couldn't hack it in the Marines and left after a few weeks. I hate to see him dressed up at the cenotaph. It will be weird if Harry and Andrew , who have both seen active service, wear suits with Edward in Uniform.

suziewoozie Tue 13-Apr-21 10:36:39

It’s a ceremonial funeral not a family funeral . COVID means only family will be there ( probably) but this does not make it a family funeral. It is a ceremonial funeral attended by family. Any republican knows that

Callistemon Tue 13-Apr-21 10:34:24

Oldwoman70

A quick Google search reveals:

Full Uniform (which includes headdress and cap badges), may be worn on specified official occasions by ex-servicemen, providing the letter 'R' depicting 'Retired' is worn, is provided at individual expense, and agreed in advance,on request, by the relevant MOD department.

Also the Queen can give permission for uniform to be worn

Generally speaking, they would probably wear a blazer with an insignia, plus medals and headgear, not full uniform.

Callistemon Tue 13-Apr-21 10:29:52

^Is this a thread to criticise the Royal Family, the Palace ‘machine’ ,the wearing of uniforms to funerals, the non wearing of uniforms to funerals, anything that Boris Johnson does or says ( have I missed anything out?)^?

Yes, lemongrove -
Can you see Boris in a uniform?

Callistemon Tue 13-Apr-21 10:27:33

It is not a State or Military funeral. It is a family funeral.



It has nothing to do with spite or humiliation, but is the correct protocol for the wearing of military uniform. It would apply to ex-service man attending a funeral. Medals and bars can be worn.

Correct, *Peasblossom^


I expect those who have medals may do so, if they wish. Harry took over as ceremonial Captain General of the Royal Marines from his grandfather; if he still held that position he perhaps could have worn the uniform to honour his grandfather, but he relinquished it.

He is not a serving member nor head of any regiment or establishment.

I know that wreaths may be laid locally around the country by ex-service personnel who will not be wearing their uniforms. They may wear medals, I do not know.

It's no good getting enraged about something read in the media when there are no facts to back up the claims.

I thought we were all told that constantly on GN.

suziewoozie Tue 13-Apr-21 09:57:22

lemongrove

Is this a thread to criticise the Royal Family, the Palace ‘machine’ ,the wearing of uniforms to funerals, the non wearing of uniforms to funerals, anything that Boris Johnson does or says ( have I missed anything out?)?

All of the above - it follows in the rich well established tradition of all RF threads ?

maddyone Tue 13-Apr-21 09:33:37

suzie is correct when she says it is an opinion, and as she says, we’ll never know the truth.

maddyone Tue 13-Apr-21 09:31:32

Of course it’s a fact that Boris Johnson was invited or he was not invited, but since none of us know whether he was or wasn’t invited, therefore none of us know that he lied!
Those posters who suggested that Boris Johnson was lying about receiving an invitation are merely speculating, they don't know whether he received an invitation, or whether he lied about receiving an invitation, therefore this is merely opinion. Not facts.
Only the RF and BJ know the truth of it!

lemongrove Tue 13-Apr-21 09:26:28

Is this a thread to criticise the Royal Family, the Palace ‘machine’ ,the wearing of uniforms to funerals, the non wearing of uniforms to funerals, anything that Boris Johnson does or says ( have I missed anything out?)?

suziewoozie Tue 13-Apr-21 09:11:13

Anniebach

I doubt invitation cards were sent out, there would have been discussions between the palace and no.10 .

If Boris had attended what of the first ministers ?

But that’s all irrelevant - he’s not going and that’s clearly the right thing. He’s an inveterate liar and that’s clearly the wrong thing.

Anniebach Tue 13-Apr-21 09:04:53

I doubt invitation cards were sent out, there would have been discussions between the palace and no.10 .

If Boris had attended what of the first ministers ?

suziewoozie Tue 13-Apr-21 09:02:47

dragonfly46

I do not keep coming back Suzie this is my first visit to this thread so my comment was hardly repetitive.
It was no more a personal attack on you as yours was to the Queen.
I get you are a Republican I am neither a Royalist nor a Republican but at the moment I see a family mourning a family member just as we have done recently.

Apologies for not realising it was your first post on this thread. What’s repetitive is the attacks across the various threads. I stand by the rest of what I said.

dragonfly46 Tue 13-Apr-21 08:56:52

I do not keep coming back Suzie this is my first visit to this thread so my comment was hardly repetitive.
It was no more a personal attack on you as yours was to the Queen.
I get you are a Republican I am neither a Royalist nor a Republican but at the moment I see a family mourning a family member just as we have done recently.

suziewoozie Tue 13-Apr-21 08:56:20

Greta

^Whether or not Boris Johnson was invited isn’t a fact, it’s an opinion.^

How can it be an opinion? He was either invited or he wasn't. It has been reported that he declined the invitation. An actual, factual invitation? Or more spin and lies to make his claim come across as a noble gesture. 'Noble' is not in his vocabulary. The problem with people like Boris Johnson is that you cannot believe a word he says.

It’s an opinion because we’ll never know the truth but many of us are drawing on long experience of him to know it’s more likely to be a lie or exaggerated spin than not.

Ellianne Tue 13-Apr-21 08:53:43

sw who is the thread police? Not me, I have only made one very unopinionated comment here.

However, I have experienced nasty pile ons myself in the past, so if you are upset I can offer this advice. Life is too short to worry. Move on. That's why we are trying to lighten things up.

Right I'm off to play Vera and investigate a few crimes with my sniffer hound down by the river. Actually, come to think about it, she has a Land Rover too, doesn't she?