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A dreadful backward step

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trisher Wed 01-Sept-21 16:27:24

Texas has effectively just ended a woman's right to choose. It is now illegal to proceed with an abortion once a foetal heartbeat can be detected (usually around 6 weeks). Requests to the Supreme Court to stop this happening received no response. Is this just a step back or is it the beginning of a backlash? www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-58406496?at_custom3=BBC+News&at_custom4=CE2827E4-0B04-11EC-8965-4315933C408C&at_medium=custom7&at_custom2=facebook_page&at_campaign=64&at_custom1=%5Bpost+type%5D&fbclid=IwAR2Bfa_zskKablTGrZSidgqmWSnFSDom0mex5_SmytiOSh7K34EKmNT-to0

grandtanteJE65 Thu 02-Sept-21 12:31:58

I don't particularly care for the thought of abortion, but feel that only the pregnant woman can or should decide whether to have an abortion or not.

To me it is totally disgusting to expect a woman who has been raped, or forced into an incestuous relationship, which very, very few of them chose, to have to give birth to the child.

Abortion is, however, such an ethical dilemma that I would greatly prefer contraceptives and advice on contraception to be readily available.

The religious lobby against abortion or contraception could always devote their efforts to premoting chastity and planned parenthood, plus fighting for every worker's right to a decent wage, but few of them are active in any of these causes.

There would probably be fewer abortions if more people were able to bring a child up in moderate comfort.

trisher Thu 02-Sept-21 12:36:23

kwest

Clearly this change in the law has not been thought through properly and encourages extremist reactions at either end of the scale.
It is a much more complicated situation than we are seen to condone or reject in these responses and there is no easy answer. Sometimes these dreadful procedures have valid reasons for taking place.
However, I would still suggest that people do a little reading around the International Rights Of The Child. It may give some people time to pause for thought.
The girls and women ,who, for whatever reason, agree to getting rid of the life growing inside them often suffer psychologically for the rest of their lives. We try to soften the words used to describe the procedure but at a very base level the underlying belief for many of these people is "I killed my baby".

kwest I am well aware of the UN Rights of the Child and many years ago I was responsible for my local council adopting them and implementing them in all their dealings with children.
The problem is that a foetus is not a child. It has no independent life of its own and it cannot live without its mother.
Yes girls and women always remember the baby they lost and they may need help to come through that loss, but why would it be better for them to have a child and for two people to suffer rather than one?
But as I said it is largely irrelevant. Women have always had abortions, they will continue to have abortions. They will simply be less safe, not always medically supervised and done in secret. So what you are actually proposing is that physical harm should be added to psychological damage. During this process some women will die. Making abortions illegal doesn't stop them happening.

Youngatheart51 Thu 02-Sept-21 12:40:59

It never fails to amaze me that America who claims to be the leader of the free world can still be in the dark ages when it comes to things like abortion, woman's rights, racism, allowing 14 year old children to marry etc.

Authoress Thu 02-Sept-21 12:40:59

Why on earth would any woman vote for the Republicans.

Harmonypuss Thu 02-Sept-21 13:44:35

This move in Texas is abhorrent!
One of the things that really annoys me about the US is that individual states have their own laws. Could you imagine if the law said one thing in the West Midlands and something else in the East Midlands?
I know many states in the US are bigger than the whole of England but all 50 of them are still parts of one country in the same way as our counties are, and the laws should be the same across them all.

OnwardandUpward Thu 02-Sept-21 13:49:34

I noticed that around the time of the Trump/Biden election there was a lot of pressure in churches as I saw a video that was circulating where the preacher was telling the congregation "IF you don't vote Trump, you are NOT a Christian!"
I suspect the same people are the ones telling people that the vaccination is the mark of the beast and that you have to vote "this way".

As my husband often remarks, sometimes the ones with the most "Christian" values in America are often the most Trump loving, intolerant, gun toting, haters of the poor, gay, coloured and trans people. They seem to have their own agenda and it's a political thing, certainly their behaviour is not biblical. Whatever happened to shock horror people thinking for themselves and making their own choices based on information and freewill. Shocking times! Obviously not all Christian groups are this way, but they do exist.

GillT57 Thu 02-Sept-21 13:51:39

SueDonim

Isn’t it strange that once the babies that are so desired by the lawmakers are born, the very same people then want to wash their hands of them, affording the child and their family no statutory maternity leave, a lack of medical care, a minimal welfare social net, and an education that they begrudge paying taxes for. Heaven help them, too, if they’re black or disabled or a migrant. hmm

Exactly this! If you are going to force a woman to bear a child, at least support her, feed her, feed the child. The irony of this happening, just when people are getting, rightly, incensed about the reduction of women's rights in Afghanistan is mindblowing

Alioop Thu 02-Sept-21 14:00:33

If any of you watched Three Families, about abortion laws in N.Ireland, there are a lot of reasons why some woman need to have them. It must be awful to make the decision to do it, never mind having idiots making laws forbidding you.

GillT57 Thu 02-Sept-21 14:11:15

Yes I watched that Alioop, a very good dramatisation of the situation that normal, everyday families can find themselves in. Even more chilling, in Texas, the person who drives the woman to the abortion clinic can be prosecuted for enabling an abortion.

Bluecat Thu 02-Sept-21 14:32:54

It has to be the right of each individual woman to choose what happens to her body. It is also true that, in some cases, not Be I Ing born is perhaps the better option.

I know of a young woman who is currently expecting a baby as a result of rape. She chose not to have an abortion. This is the second baby she has had after being raped, possibly because she is a crack addict and gets herself into dangerous situations when she is using, and possibly because she is small and vulnerable. The first child was taken away for adoption before her first birthday, because the young woman couldn't parent her properly. Her own childhood had been horrific and she had no idea how to be a mother. During both pregnancies, she tried to give up drugs and would be clean for long periods of time, but then the addiction would be too strong and she would go back on crack. She has been repeatedly warned that it may damage the baby but the need for drugs overwhelms her. Afterwards she loathes herself and wants to commit suicide. When this baby is born, it will probably be addicted too. It is likely that it will have permenant brain damage. When it is born, it will be taken straight into care.

I can't help thinking that maybe abortion might have been the better choice. That baby is suffering in the womb. Every time that its mum goes through withdrawal, baby does too. God knows what damage is done when mum goes back on drugs.

Maybe it will be undamaged. Maybe it will get wonderful foster parents who cope with a drug dependent baby, and loving, patient adoptive parents. But maybe none of those things will happen and it will be condemned to a miserable life before it is even born.

That's just one example of a case where non-existence might be better than existence, and at least her mother had a choice. If that choice is taken away from American women - and if it happens in Texas, it will happen in other states - how many damaged, unwanted children will have to be born? And the US system is harsh. There is very little provision for people who can't make it on their own.

My DD in the US says that abortion is a much more controversial political issue over there. She knows several people, including women, who wouldn't vote for Hilary Clinton because of her support for Roe vs Wade.

CleoPanda Thu 02-Sept-21 15:14:18

Horrified as I was about this step back into the dark ages, I was also shocked at the new gun laws!
“ New Texas law allowing people to carry handguns without permits stirs mix of fear, concern among law enforcement
Starting Sept. 1, most Texans will be able to carry handguns in public without going through training or having to get permits. Law enforcement officers worry that could make their jobs more dangerous.”

songstress60 Thu 02-Sept-21 16:02:21

A woman should have control over her own body. No doubt that rule will spread all over USA so they will travel to Canada to obtain abortions. I support a woman's freedom to choose. My mother was a healthcare assistant in the 1950's and she saw a woman die from a botched up abortion and a few years later another woman came in for fertility treatment but received short thrift from both the nursing and medical healthcare professionals because she had previously tried to bring about an abortion herself. It is going back in time.

ExaltedWombat Thu 02-Sept-21 16:37:06

They see the pregnant woman as custodian of a separate life, and therefore see abortion as murder. We have people who support using a plane that could have rescued people from peril in Afghanistan for evacuating dogs instead. It's a funny old world, isn't it?

Polly4t42 Thu 02-Sept-21 16:42:12

Shame on Texas

Elegran Thu 02-Sept-21 17:00:44

What if the timing of a woman's periods is irregular, ranging from three to five or six weeks over the months, and even missing one here and there? She would not suspect that she was pregnant until an abortion was out of the question, and could not even be considered (assuming she could find a doctor who would perform it at all)

It is likely that a woman in that position is more likely than average to have other health problems, physical ones or emotional ones like anorexia, and more likely to be at risk in pregnancy.

Deedaa Thu 02-Sept-21 17:14:37

ExaltedWombat The plan was for people to travel with the dogs. The animals were in the hold, the staff and any refugees who needed the seats were to travel on the plane. Foreign office delays meant this didn't happen.

Not sure how this connects with abortion in Texas though. I would certainly think that the people who donated for the plane would also be appalled at the new abortion law. I knew someone whose girlfriend bled out on a doorstep in the days before legal abortion and, however sad abortion is, her death ruined two families. The boyfriend never got over it.

CBBL Thu 02-Sept-21 17:19:20

I think this is very sad, and feel for any person adversely affected by it!

Summerlove Thu 02-Sept-21 17:31:40

love0c

While this has been passed in Texas, I can not see it spreading across America. The American's do not stand for their rights being taken away. Shame many people in this country don't feel the same. Texas may well suffer a backlash yet.

So many Americans, Texans, are anti abortion. They will be celebrating this while fighting wearing masks, with absolutely zero irony.

annab275 Thu 02-Sept-21 17:39:13

Maybe there should be severe penalties for a man who impregnates a woman. I also wonder why these people who are so keen on saving the life of a foetus can carry guns, with the potential to end the life of a fully functioning human. It has got nothing to do with Christianity.

trisher Thu 02-Sept-21 18:17:32

There is also a possibility that the right to a home abortion (the woman is given the drugs and takes them in the comfort of her own home) may be ended in the UK. The Women's Equality Party is taking action to stop this www.womensequality.org.uk/at_home_abortion_action?utm_campaign=abortion_action_all_m_and_s&utm_medium=email&utm_source=womensequality

Pinkhousegirl Thu 02-Sept-21 18:33:54

You are right 70% Americans support a woman’s right to choose but 25 of the 50 states are already preparing to follow Texas - this is a state by state decision, not national. In his Eye.

Barmeyoldbat Thu 02-Sept-21 18:53:00

Just awful, nearly, and the America has the cheek to talk about the treatment of women by the Taliban. They have also stopped funding abroad with family planning clinics that also offer abortions

LucyW Thu 02-Sept-21 21:05:50

Am so upset to hear that this is happening in Texas. Women will continue to have abortions, regardless of whether they are legal or not. When you are desperate you will try anything. Shame on Texas.

Milliedog Fri 03-Sept-21 00:03:01

Just a thought. In the UK, when abortion was brought in, it was supposed to be only for certain limited cases. Last year, there were 575 abortions a day in England and Wales. There are pregnancies due to incest and rape but not, I hope, giving rise to 209,917 abortions a year. A woman has rights over her own body. But I question her rights over a vulnerable body with a heartbeat. A neighbour was strongly in favour of abortion until the day he was with his daughter when she lost her twins early in gestation and he saw what they looked like. Unborn babies older than hers have been aborted for cleft palate, club foot or for being the wrong sex. We need to question why, when contraception is so easily available, abortion is so common, even though such questioning is so quickly slapped down.

Rosie51 Fri 03-Sept-21 00:27:50

Doodledog It's awful. It really does feel like the world is moving backwards where women's rights are concerned. After years of making progress in many areas, it's like there's been a backlash, and we are being swept aside.

MaizieD What apalls me most about this is that some women must have voted for it...

I totally agree, women's rights have had a sledgehammer taken to them and some women have colluded in that destruction. Women must have autonomy over their own bodies. That anyone can be prepared to legislate that even a pregnancy that results from rape or incest is not grounds for termination beggars belief. It just confirms that females are the absolute bottom of the human pyramid. The 6 week limit is farcical, if that's your belief have the guts to outlaw terminations outright, it's cowardly to set a limit that is impossible to comply with.
I do observe however, that everyone seems quite happy with using women, girls, mother, she etc when discussing termination of a pregnancy, but if the pregnancy is to continue to term the wording changes to pregnant person, birthing parent etc on grounds of inclusivity. Why is inclusivity not needed around termination of pregnancy?
Full disclosure why I use the word termination. My first, much wanted, pregnancy was in danger for several months. Being signed off work for "potential abortion" was very distressing, albeit it was the correct medical term. Happy to report the pregnancy proceeded to term and delivery of a healthy chjild.