Josianne
Calistemon
Calendargirl
It has nothing to do with any of us
Well, that applies to most of the stuff on GN, but doesn’t stop the vast majority of us (me included) weighing in with our opinions.
Were it not for opinions then Gransnet (and Mumsnet, Twitter etc) would sink like a trace!
And I am chuffed that a spin off from this thread asking for opinions on splitting Politics and News has generated 130 very strong opinions! So, never underestimate small talk or dimwits!
I think that you are underestimating those that take part in “small talk” and making assumptions about those of us who don’t take much part in small talk but prefer to post on more debate type of threads. I certainly don’t think anyone who keeps entirely to the chat threads dim, as I know absolutely nothing about them.
I’m one of them, but that doesn’t mean that I don’t take part in small talk, I do, but almost exclusively with people face to face or people I know as friends, family etc. I don’t “know” anyone on the virtual media, so prefer to largely keep it debate and the odd foray into chat etc.
I can understand those who are alone or need extra support that they can’t get from friends and family, then social media is a life line. I have replied to those in trouble or worry, but it can imo only ever be second best to face to face, love and touch.