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So far, 2022 is not a good year to be an entitled white man!

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GillT57 Sun 16-Jan-22 13:22:33

Johnson, Prince Andrew, Djokavic are all having a bad start to their year. Whatever our opinions of any of them, and I am sure we vary, they have all considered themselves to be unfettered by the standards of behaviour, acceptance of legislation that the majority of us adhere to.

janeainsworth Wed 19-Jan-22 08:15:16

nanna8 One rule for white people, another for the rest. It’s not right

That’s what white privilege means. Read the link janejudge posted upthread if it’s news to you.

Alegrias1 Wed 19-Jan-22 08:14:49

The OP was about entitled, white men. Not humble, black women. Not humble white men.

Entitled white men.

But here come the "all lives matter" brigade.

I read your link Gill. Perfectly clear what you mean.

Kandinsky Wed 19-Jan-22 08:01:25

It will be seen as racist if someone posts ( or only talks about ) the wrong doings of a particular type of person - in this case white men.
Was the op up in arms & posting about the Rotherham child sex gangs? Vast majority of offenders Asian men. They thought they were entitled to rape & abuse vulnerable children - & got away with it for years.
Did the op post her disgust at that?

JaneJudge Wed 19-Jan-22 07:49:16

GillT57

Sigh. At no time did I say that all heterosexual white middle class men are entitled or irrelevant. Most of my male friends and family are in this category.

Yeah all my sons do too Gill and I haven't found your post in any way offensive. I wish people would read the link I posted smile especially surrounding being sensitive

Allsorts Wed 19-Jan-22 07:45:39

Exactly what I said Nanna and Gwneth, couldn’t agree more, see the person.


It is good as I’ve said that we can express our views.

nanna8 Wed 19-Jan-22 07:10:10

Well I think mentioning the colour of someone’s skin in this context is racist,too. Substitute black for white and there would be an uproar. One rule for white people, another for the rest. It’s not right.

Doodledog Tue 18-Jan-22 23:17:53

I know, and look at all the bad behaviour already grin

Callistemon21 Tue 18-Jan-22 23:08:50

We're only 18 days in!

Doodledog Tue 18-Jan-22 22:53:31

Perhaps so, but it is privileged white blokes who have famously behaved in an unedifying manner in 2022, which was the point of the OP.

Gwyneth Tue 18-Jan-22 22:10:29

No you didn’t say that but by specifically listing four white men the implication for me was that only white men are entitled. Whereas a sense of entitlement extends across the spectrum. I can think of both men and women (white and non white) who display a sense of entitlement, think they can do what they like regardless and are particularly arrogant.

GillT57 Tue 18-Jan-22 21:33:43

Sigh. At no time did I say that all heterosexual white middle class men are entitled or irrelevant. Most of my male friends and family are in this category.

Gwyneth Tue 18-Jan-22 21:24:51

maddyone

I feel sad that all heterosexual, white, middle class men are lumped together these days. They are not all entitled. They are not all irrelevant. And their opinions are just as valid as anyone else’s opinions. Some are entitled and arrogant, but the vast majority are not.

Am a bit late to this thread but well said maddy absolutely agree. It really infuriates me that all white males are categorised in this way.

janeainsworth Tue 18-Jan-22 21:19:30

Pammie I noticed you left Boris out of your diatribe. Was there a reason for that?

It is not racist to say that Boris, Prince Andrew and Novak Djokovic are white. It’s a statement of fact.

If course it would be silly to pretend that non-white men, or women for that matter, never do anything corrupt, or commit crimes, or try to evade regulations that are there for the common good.
But these particular men were all white, and it’s a simple descriptor, and that’s all.

Pammie1 Tue 18-Jan-22 19:55:00

GillT57

Pammiel. You are completely out of order, it is deeply offensive to call me racist. If you think my opening post is racist I suggest you report me to the moderators and let them decide. Thank you.

At no point did I say you were racist. I said your post is racist. And it is. I’ve made my reasons for thinking this over several posts. If, at some point, the moderators think the same thing I’m sure they will delete the thread. I, however, believe in free speech. I don’t agree with what you say, but I defend your right to say it.

Pammie1 Tue 18-Jan-22 19:51:33

TerriBull

To add to Johnson and Prince Andy, white men not having a good year. It seems white working class boys haven't had good years for a long, long time now, as they languish ignored at the bottom of life's heap, a sort of English version of the Indian caste system "untouchables", that's not to suggest of course that other races have a privileged hierarchy because as we all know you have to be white to lord it over your fellow human being.

???

GillT57 Tue 18-Jan-22 19:47:31

Pammiel. You are completely out of order, it is deeply offensive to call me racist. If you think my opening post is racist I suggest you report me to the moderators and let them decide. Thank you.

Kapitan Tue 18-Jan-22 19:46:56

GillT57. I perceive your comments to be racist. Therefore they are racist.

Pammie1 Tue 18-Jan-22 19:41:24

Riverwalk

^I think that the OP should have referred to people, rather than white men^

There is a very definite group of people who rule the roost, and in general have control over all our lives e.g. politicians, FTSE CEOs, judiciary, etc.

And it's a fair description to say 'entitled white men', because that's the demographic and a fact.

Nothing racist.

And you think that princes and tennis players fall into this category ? Of course it’s racist. If the same thing had been said about someone of colour the thread would have been deleted by now.

Pammie1 Tue 18-Jan-22 19:38:08

GillT57

Thanks Janeainsworth, and for the record, those who described my post, and therefore me, as racist, are wrong and to say so is deeply offensive. The men I listed are white, why is it racist to say so? There are plenty of things going on in this country to get worked up about, this is not one of them.

Your post IS racist. These men are entitled as a result of being wealthy and thinking the world owes them something. What has that got to do with the colour of their skin. Plenty of black and other ethnic celebrities have displayed the same behaviour - why don’t you call them out ? Sick and tired of the same old shit being trotted out when it’s not relevant.

Pammie1 Tue 18-Jan-22 19:33:24

janeainsworth

I don’t really understand the indignation about the use of the word ‘white’ in the OP.
I thought Gill was just referring to white privilege, and the fact that 3 men who have had a bad start to 2022 because of their common belief that they are somehow entitled to disregard the laws & rules which apply to everybody, don’t apply to them.
They’re all white.
What’s wrong with saying so? If they were all bald, would it be wrong to entitle the post ‘Not a good year for entitled bald men’?

What ???!!! Being wealthy and entitled has nothing to do with your race or colour. It’s everything to do with living a rich and privileged lifestyle to the extent that you think you can do as you like. Djokovic found out that wealth does not entitle you to ride roughshod over Australian Covid rules and the people who have suffered as a result of the pandemic. Andrew found out that being a member of the Royal family doesn’t afford him protection from whatever he may or may not have done as a result of his association with a convicted sex trafficker. Nothing whatever to do with the colour of their skin.

Riverwalk Tue 18-Jan-22 19:32:41

You talking to me?

MerylStreep Tue 18-Jan-22 19:29:16

Kapitan

Your sick vile despicable gutter derived Marxist orientated comments make me vomit.

You need to get out more if you think these are vile comments ?
Btw you could at least get the username correct when replying.

Kapitan Tue 18-Jan-22 19:15:46

Are you talking to me Callusmon21?

Callistemon21 Tue 18-Jan-22 19:10:13

Is that you, Nigel?

Kapitan Tue 18-Jan-22 19:09:26

Your sick vile despicable gutter derived Marxist orientated comments make me vomit.