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Women-only train carriages

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Doodledog Wed 16-Feb-22 12:10:09

Scotland's transport minister is considering introducing women-only train carriages to make women feel safer on trains. Do you think that this is a good idea? I'm not sure.

I think that being alone in a women's carriage is probably riskier than being in a mixed carriage with other people, but quite like the idea of there being somewhere to get away from stag parties or football trips, or even lone men who are threatening.

Having said that, I was once on a train that went past a women's prison, and the carriage filled with a rowdy group of women who had collected a friend who had been released. They had crates of beer, and were drunk, lairy and quite frightening. A woman sitting nearby (not me - I took a concentrated interest in my book!) asked one of them to stop smoking, and they poured beer over her and were very abusive until a guard arrived with transport police and threw them off. The guard didn't turn up for quite a while, though - I assume that someone had raised the alarm and the transport police got on at the next mainline station. A woman-only carriage wouldn't have helped this situation at all.

Also, I don't like the idea of peaceable young men and boys being stuck with stag parties and other rowdy groups of men either. They can be intimidating in non-sexual ways too, and women can sometimes be a civilising influence in those situations. As ever, the answer is surely to deal with the behaviour of the troublemakers, not to ask the well-behaved to alter their own behaviour instead?

Finally, and particularly in Scotland, what's the point of having women-only anything when 'women' includes men who claim to identify as such?

Paperbackwriter Thu 17-Feb-22 11:08:30

Hithere

Not at all.
Make them only men carriages

We have to stop women from paying the price and being restricted based on men's actions

Completely agree with this. Also, if you choose not to use a Women Only carriage and something bad happens, it lays the way open for being told, 'Oh well you should have got in the women's carriage'. Our fault all over again, along with short skirts and being a bit pissed.

ElaineRI55 Thu 17-Feb-22 11:08:14

I don't think it is the way to go ( or go back to).
Would there always be sufficient carriages to make it possible? What if there were a much larger number of men on a particular train for some reason and they were overcrowded but there was a nearly empty women-only carriage. Would it always be in a fixed position so people with mobility problems ( of either gender), could get to the right part of the platform in time?
Is it teaching children that most men are dangerous and women need to stay away from them?
very disappointing that no-one intervened for the poster who was verbally abused on her journey.
In most trains, I think you can walk between carriages and get away from someone who is annoying or threatening.
It is possible to text the transport police discreetly on 61016 if you see anti-social or threatening behaviour or feel threatened at a station or on a train. They can send officers if needed. If it's an emergency, it's still 999.

Paperbackwriter Thu 17-Feb-22 11:06:53

Riverwalk

The newer London Underground trains are great and feel much safer - no chance of finding yourself alone in a carriage.

They're the usual 7 or 8 carriages in length but open-plan so basically one long carriage.

The only problem with those long trains is that you can't easily get away from someone who is being a pain. At least on the old Piccadilly line ones you can nip into the next carriage at the next stop if there's someone you want to get away from!

Rowsie Thu 17-Feb-22 10:50:22

When I used to commute into London when I was about 16 (some 56 years ago!) I can remember we did have women only carriages on the train. Late at night they were very scary as you could sometimes be the only person in there and it did feel like you were a target. I rarely used them and see no point of them now. Surely it is safer to be in a carriage with a number of people.

Hithere Wed 16-Feb-22 22:46:03

Awesome mental image, VS

VioletSky Wed 16-Feb-22 22:12:24

Hithere I had to laugh because I had a mental image of men only being allowed in mixed spaces if they were accompanied by a woman

Hithere Wed 16-Feb-22 21:58:04

Not at all.
Make them only men carriages

We have to stop women from paying the price and being restricted based on men's actions

Kali2 Wed 16-Feb-22 21:50:58

Personally, I don't feel the need. And as I met my tall dark handsome man in the train ... feel it would be a pity.

Deedaa Wed 16-Feb-22 21:29:19

I often used to use the Ladies Only compartment when I was going to school but I think in those days men were more likely to take notice of the signs.

Serendipity22 Wed 16-Feb-22 21:16:32

About 5 years ago myself and my husband went on holiday to Dubai 1 particular day, we took a train ride ( for the sole purpose of experiencing a train journey in Dubai ) Anyway this particular train had mixed, mens and womens carriages, basically it was 1 long train with a line on the floor indicating which side the passenger must stand on.

I found it strange and i didnt feel totally comfortable, the mens carriage ( side of the line ) was rather full and 1 male passenger has part of his foot over the line, a guard came through and told the man to get his foot out of the womens carriage !!! ( well, I presume thats what the guard said )

But, that was in Dubai, my 1 and only experience, can't say it left a sweet taste in my mouth.

Doodledog Wed 16-Feb-22 20:53:38

More security would be a bonus for everyone, I think. Train journeys can be a long time to feel threatened, or even generally inconvenienced by loud or otherwise obnoxious people.

It would be good if there were guards or other security people patrolling them.

VioletSky Wed 16-Feb-22 20:47:20

I think it would be better to have more security and perhaps said security being overseen my a real person in a carriage where anyone (and I mean anyone) who feels vulnerable or needs support could sit

Gwyneth Wed 16-Feb-22 20:46:37

I frequently travel by train and wouldn’t use a ‘woman only’ carriage for the reasons already mentioned. Definitely prefer more guards and maybe the option of a ‘child free’ carriage.

Witzend Wed 16-Feb-22 20:45:55

You’re not trapped in a carriage any more, though, at least not in any trains around here. If I’d wanted to, I could have walked through all 8 coaches of the train we took earlier from central London to our outer bit.

It was different years ago, at least on the non long distance trains I used to take - once in an old fashioned compartment you were stuck there, so if any dodgy bloke got on….
Hence the old ladies-only sections.
IIRC they used to have ladies-only waiting rooms, too. With a fire in winter!

halfpint1 Wed 16-Feb-22 20:33:48

I use the trains to travel now and I would feel more not less
vulnerable in a women's only carriage. Bad idea.

Coastpath Wed 16-Feb-22 17:21:48

Thank you Galaxy. You're very kind.

Galaxy Wed 16-Feb-22 17:18:59

So sorry that happened to you coast path flowers

Coastpath Wed 16-Feb-22 17:17:34

About 15 years ago I was on a packed commuter train between Bristol and Bath. The train was full to standing with men and women. A drunk got on the train at Bath and started bothering me, waving a bottle in my face, shouting sexual suggestions, insults and innuendo.

By the time we arrived at Bristol I was a a terrified, humiliated wreck (I don't scare easily), I burst from the train in tears and then, and only then did anyone come to my aid.

Several men said they didn't want to exacerbate the situation by speaking up and that they would have stepped in if the man had touched me. But whilst it was going on for the whole journey not one person stood up or said a word. That was harder to get over than the actual drunk idiot.

The Bristol station traffic police were not interested and said that has he'd not touched me there was nothing they could do.

If you are not safe in a packed mixed sex commuter carriage then you will not be safe anywhere on a train. An all woman carriage provides the opportunity for a man to behave as he will unchallenged by the decent men who have stuck by the 'women only' carriage rule.

I still travel by train now, but am always wary. If someone I don't like the look of gets on, or if I am alone in a carriage with a man I move immediately.

Galaxy Wed 16-Feb-22 17:07:51

I might sit in the women only if he was getting on my nervesgrin.
I think women need spaces to themselves when they are vulnerable eg prisons refuges. I dont think that applies to trains. And I would have concern that if an assault happened in a mixed carriage the first cry would be but why wasnt she in the womans carriage.

Pepper59 Wed 16-Feb-22 17:02:27

Id rather they had more guards on the trains.

Daisend1 Wed 16-Feb-22 16:19:30

Farzanah *a
Why sit women only if you had a male companion with you?
As said women only

Dickens Wed 16-Feb-22 16:16:57

The best protection for women is a carriage full of other people - those long carriages look good from that point of view.

... and the (now) old fashioned TrainGuards - removed gradually from 1972 onward I believe. Some train companies do retain them though - South West Trains for one.

I know, I know - it costs money. And safety is a secondary concern in a free-market economy which espouses privatisation of just about anything that can be privatised.

Urmstongran Wed 16-Feb-22 15:45:27

I remember those Nannarose I used to get the train on my own to the local grammar school and felt safe going in their after a pervert had flashed me, aged 12y on the way to the railway station.

LauraNorderr Wed 16-Feb-22 15:42:01

I read the opening paragraph and thought, hmm sounds a good idea.
Then read the rest of the post and all of your comments and now am strongly in the no way Jose camp.
Lots of good common sense points made.

Nannarose Wed 16-Feb-22 15:41:02

Is there anyone else who remembers Ladies' Waiting Rooms at train stations?