I'm very unhappy about it! My 32 year old DD's mental health has been badly affected by the stresses of Covid. She didn't use public transport for nearly 2 years, choosing instead to either make the journey to work on foot, taking an hour each way, or driving to the nearest free parking then walking the remaining half hour each way. Thankfully she could work from home much of the time but the isolation affected her badly too. She now has a new job in London and has moved home to live with me. When she can't work from home she has to use train and tube. We both test whenever we go anywhere but she doesn't trust the lateral flow tests completely. In the last 2 weeks we have both been contacts so have been daily testing, though my testing days are over today and hers were at the weekend. Now we go back to testing whenever we are seeing people, which for me is 5 or 6 days a week. Many of my friends are over 75 so I'm conscious of the need to protect them. A few are extremely vulnerable.
I can't afford to pay for regular tests so we've been stockpiling a bit as we knew this would eventually happen. I dread to think how DD will cope when it is impossible to know if we are ok. She's far less worried about getting it herself than giving it to someone vulnerable. Last night she said "Does that mean I can no longer see my 90 year old grandma?" She actually hasn't seen her properly face to face since before the pandemic due to living too far away, but we were planning to see her in a week and a half. At least we can still test beforehand for now!
I agree we need to have the freedom to make our own decisions and decide how best to protect ourselves, but making pcr tests difficult or impossible to obtain will cause great anxiety for many and lateral flow tests should not be used if one has symptoms. The idea that people will go back to the old ways of battling through illness and going to work horrifies me now we know how dangerous that can be. At least I'm retired!
I sincerely hope DD can get the help she needs with her anxiety. Living with me seems to have helped a bit but it is only a temporary arrangement and she will eventually live alone again when she finds the right place. Unfortunately one person's freedom can become another person's prison!
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