I had my two children in 1969 and 1972 both by emergency ceasarian. I am 4ft 10ins with small hips and shoe size. When did midwifery training in the mid 60s I was told this was indicative of a narrow pelvis and possibility of ceasaran birth.
I was told late in pregnant that I was ''ok'' pelvis wise and should have no difficulty giving birth.My first labour went on for hours with no progress, and a high unengaged baby's head.A doctor broke my membranes, my DS1 went into transverse lie and started to pass meconium, I had developed a Bandle's ring where the womb contracts round the baby-you could actually see his shape under my tummy lying crosswise.
One very quick dash to theatre I can remember two nurses running while pushing me on the trolley.The general anaesthetic used nearly killed us both, I stopped breathing and my snows brought out nearly dead with an Apgar of 1.There was a seemingly miraculous recovery of both of us, but my son developed a personality problem later which may have been caused by his birth.
My second pregnancy went normally like the first one, and somehow it was decided that the only reason for the previous section was the transverse lie.I was worried very worried and got to such a state that if another section was needed I would have the tubal tie which went against my religious beliefs.
I was assured that would have a lovely birth this time but surprise surprise labour became complicated again.DS2 got ''stuck'' inside me his head was jammed in my pelvis and needed to be got out with forceps when they opened me up.Also my womb was about to rupture along the previous scar.His Apgar was 3 slightly higher but thankfully dd not have long time effects and is now a father and grandfather my tubes got tied so I would never have this fear again, but it has left me still guilty of committing a sin.
I will not fault the aftercare I had,I was in hospital for a fortnight both times as was normal then, came home back on my feet and minus all clips and stitches.When I asked why was allowed to go into labour again for the second baby the answer I got was ''Well we like to give you a try''.
The reports about Shropshire are terrible.It seems it depends on what health authority and what consultant you get when it comes to caesareans by maternal choice.I have heard of people asking and getting them with no medical reason at all while others are refused often with terrible consequences.