Thank you volver I always knew I was useless at Maths, that hopeless teacher taught me that before I ever wasted all that time calculating pi, but arithmetic is clearly the sort of maths that real people need, rather than the esoteric stuff you think is interesting.
I have been and will, obviously, now always be useless at Maths, despite the many other, very valid parts of my life. I consider that a result.
No I clearly do not believe that being numerate and valuing literature and arts are mutually exclusive, but complicated maths is clearly unnecessary, although not necessarily a good thing, to hold down for a good, satisfying, skilled career in science.
Those that can develop those complex skills, should do so, whether male or female and should not be deterred from studying the subject but, on the other hand, those that can only aspire, and we all know where our comfort levels lie, to advanced arithmetic, must not be put off getting far as we can.