MerylStreep
Doodledog
I’ve never commented on this thread because i feel I have nothing to offer, but believe me I read every post and speak out about it at every given opportunity.
That's great to hear, MS
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Come and join us? You have as much to offer as anyone. This is gathering momentum in a variety of ways, I think. On the one hand, there are more and more attempts to eradicate women (such as the idea of asking about menstruation instead of gametes), and on the other there are more and more women realising the importance of what is going on. I think it will come to a head when the next election campaign gets under way, but that's very much a guess. Something else might happen to push the issue out of the limelight, or the TRAs might lie low and hope the questioners go away, but anyway . . .
People take a while to absorb it all, as it is both unbelievable and overwhelming. 5 years ago I was unaware of the scope of the movement towards crushing women as a sex class. I believed that Stonewall was a force for good, because of the work it had done to help LGB people. I also thought (as I still do), that transpeople had a right to live their best lives, and was only just becoming aware of the nuances involved. I have never bought into the TWAW mantra, but I think I just believed that it was something people said said because they wanted it to be true, not that they are bent on making it the case legally in spite of the obvious impossibility of the claim, and I hadn't thought through the dangerous implications for women.
The more I questioned those who push the trans cause, the more I realised that their claims are empty. They can't define a woman or a man. They can't explain what they mean by gender, or what 'knowing you are in the wrong body' means. They gaslight and twist words, and make wild accusations of the things of which they are guilty, eg homophobia. They can't substantiate any of the things they claim, and run away when challenged, claiming that there is no point in arguing with those who won't 'listen to them' (ie capitulate).
I have found that posting and questioning has made me far more aware of the issues than I would otherwise have been. I wish someone would put forward an argument for the trans cause that didn't rely on 'belief' or 'because I say so'. I am more than willing to listen if anyone can explain how someone with male gametes and a male body 'is' a woman, and how men forcing themselves into female spaces is no threat to the women who have inhabited them, but it hasn't happened yet.
It's good to hear that you are arguing offline though, and that threads like this one aren't just echo chambers. Don't believe that you have nothing to offer - I'm sure that you do.